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“Communism doesn’t work”

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I haven’t dug through their post history, but this post isn’t the definition of tankie, not all communists are tankies. Tankie = the pricks who support the Russian evasion, deny Tiananmen square, etc. Fuck tankies, but this post ain’t that

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Robert Pickton - Canadian serial killer, serial rapist, former pig farmer and possible cannibal. Fed the bodies to pigs, and maybe mixed it with pork that he sold.

The Crown reported that Pickton told the officer that he wanted to kill another woman to make it an even fifty, and that he was caught because he was "sloppy".

He will be up for parole in a few more years. Hopefully they recognize that he is at high risk of killing another woman if they let him out.

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How do you handle being upset about something online?

I struggle with this too sometimes, from a couple angles. Primarily, I’m worried about how people perceive me. I’ve been practicing not giving a shit what other people think of me for about a decade now, and I’m pretty good, but it doesn’t always work. I have to remind myself that it just doesn’t matter if a stranger disagrees with me, or thinks I’m a fuckwad/idiot/etc, just like my opinion of them doesn’t change their life. We don’t know each other. Their negative opinion of me has no real impact on my life, and holding onto that helps me move past caring about their opinion.

Secondarily, I stress about misinformation/toxic ideas being spread. I pipe up in a lot of discussions about feminism and the patriarchy because I want to clarify misconceptions that a lot of people hold about these issues. But, as far as I know, I’ve never changed someone’s mind, and the effort just brings me down. I have to remind myself it’s not my responsibility to teach someone why they might be wrong. The odds that I would actually succeed are very low, unless the person is genuine and asking questions in good faith.

ETA: lastly, I ask myself how I want to feel today. Do I want this random asshole to ruin my day? I don’t want to give them that power over me. So I work to take back that power and make sure I have a good day in spite of their efforts.

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Bernie Sanders BENDS THE KNEE To Biden, Says Cornel West Run A DISTRACTION From DEFEATING TRUMP

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Yes, it’s why I generally dislike YouTube. I really don’t appreciate the emotional manipulation. It’s also why I try to find unbiased news sources that don’t editorialize to me, I can’t stand clickbait in any form. I like communities like these that help filter out click-bait garbage and instead promote content that is good on its own, instead of content that relies on emotional manipulation.

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Bernie Sanders BENDS THE KNEE To Biden, Says Cornel West Run A DISTRACTION From DEFEATING TRUMP

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I still have more than enough content than I could ever consume in my life, even with eliminating click-bait. There are plenty of people with a wide variety of opinions and viewpoints that are able to convey their messaging without emotional manipulation, tons that I disagree with and/or that provide new perspectives. If you primarily use YouTube, I can see why you would think 99% of people do this, but it’s fairly localized to YT and similar sites.

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What do you like to do for fun? What are your hobbies?

I cycle through hobbies a lot (thanks ADHD), but currently reading is my favorite! Sometimes painting, or playing games (fallout, DnD, sims, LoZ, ACNH), watching tv (Marvelous Mrs Maisel and Our Planet atm) and movies (LOVING everything A24 rn), cuddling my cats, geeking out about nature/science things, fashion (I’m a maximalist!), and reorganizing my bookshelf. There have been a handful of other creative outlets I hop in and out of like sewing, knitting, and drawing, but they never stick.

You? I noticed you’re the one who made a couple new fashion communities recently, I love them! I love inspo albums but have no energy to make them myself (classic lurker issue).

That was a lot of parenthesis but I just smoked some weed so this is kinda stream of consciousness lol