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Oh I am THERE

This line is so enraging because it's fundamentally asserting that a woman's life is of no value on its own. Like, your life, YOU, as a human, are not worth anything by yourself. Really disgusting misogyny actually!

Especially when this kind of sentiment comes from women. It's so bleak. Like ma'am you are insulting yourself as well!

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Are You Emotionally Prepared To Die?

I think so. I'd be disappointed, and I'd worry about practicalities, but I've had a lot of circumstances that have caused me to think about my existence and my impermanence/mortality so I feel like I've had plenty of space to work through most of the feelings and questions around that. Everything dies, it's cool. I'm just grateful about getting to exist for a second.

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I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Don't let him use alcohol as an excuse for pushing your boundaries. If this is how he's acting around your family at a holiday, how will he act when you're alone? Somebody worthy of you would never do this. You deserve someone who can drink without disrespecting your body and your birthday.

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I'm starting to think my uncle is an incel.

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Hey there, just want to gently say that someone older than you in your family should be getting support from their own friends/people their age. They go to nieces/nephews/younger adults and kids for emotional support because they want to extract validation that's not fair to you. And if he seems fixated on you and demands you text him a lot that is controlling and inappropriate at best, potentially creepy at worst. He is grown, he does not need you and should not be expecting so much from a younger relation, even if you're an adult. You should be spending your emotional energy on your own life. I played this game with various aunts and my parents and my parents' friends for years and it took me a while to realize how fucked up certain things were. His problems are not your problems, your life and your time belong to you, you never have to reply to anyone ever, he is old enough to manage upset feelings without you.

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