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For apparent reasons I only browse LemmyNSFW in private mode. This also means that even though I log in I have to go reset my “local” settings every time.

Not going to demand or ask anything, but for me that UX doesn’t work well at all.

And depending on browser - local storage gets cleared somewhat randomly.

Relevant XKCD: https://xkcd.com/1172/

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[F] [OC] Do you think I'm too old to start a porn carreer when I'm 19?

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Standing out in the crowd of “self-empowered” sex-workers/porn stars trying to fight the algorithm’s appetite for new things probably isn’t the easiest thing in the world.

My hope is that the influx created by OnlyFans and its clones will help normalize sex work into a state where no-one bats an eye if someone posted themselves online to make a living when they were young and fit.

Reality is still that a lot of people prey upon this kind of thing and past life choices can ruin future careers.

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voyager.lemmynsfw.com

/u/[email protected] don’t know if you guys still support the voyager instance, but updates have been broken for at least around a week and if go to the voyager.lemmynsfw.com url Cloudflare throws up a 526 and says your SSL certificate is invalid.

If you're the owner of this website:

The SSL certificate presented by the server did not pass validation. This could indicate an expired SSL certificate or a certificate that does not include the requested domain name. Please contact your hosting provider to ensure that an up-to-date and valid SSL certificate issued by a Certificate Authority is configured for this domain name on the origin server.

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Only Fans free communities?

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Wasn’t very active though.

Don’t know if this would make the experience better for everyone, but one could imagine OF workers having a tag on their profile and this being a global filter for the entire lemmy-instance, but with possibility to set overrides for subreddits - both on a subreddit level (mods), and a user subscribed to a subreddit level (user).

This should ideally be implemented so that it’s a generic part of lemmy everywhere, as it would likely be useful for other instances too.

Then the instance admins could define the allowed tags and filters.

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TIFU by not putting my hair up.

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And lives. When your clothes gets tangled. Also, some farmers doesn’t want to walk around or climb through the tractor and climbs/jumps over the PTO. This usually goes fine for a while, but once every blue moon it catches a pant leg and you’re one farmer less.

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wow thats great mate cheers helpful

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To be fair, it’s their prerogative. I left Reddit in protest of how they were using that prerogative, but I left my account open and comments undeleted for the people who might need it later.

At the time, trying to suggest that you can do these two things in that manner was not a popular opinion and as such received massive downvotes.

Mind you this is my lemmy-verse alt account, so no meaningful clues as to what I can contribute is found here.

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Proposed rules update, 8 July 2023

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IMO if you post something online you should be aware that it could (will) be copied and reposted.

Either by humans or bots made by humans to do just that.

Literally every time someone “views” a picture or video (or anything else you make available online) their device makes a local copy of it, and any proxy servers it passes through may even decide to copy it so it can be cached for later.

Apart from direct OC content most is older content being re-discovered, or new content from a studio.

Not a mod, but it seems fairly obvious that the interpretation of the rule must be that the content was made with consent, and posted online with consent. Not the re-hosting or re-linking in this instance.

And yes, the person in the content may later have a change of heart and contact the mods and say “please don’t keep this post of me up”.

I’ve seen lots of good content disappear this way, but it’s the subjects prerogative. There’s lots of creeps online that will do everything they can to make someone’s life a hell for posting adult content online.

The least we can do is be supportive when the subjects we objectify objects.

If we support people’s right to make adult content we must also support their right to withdraw that content to the extent possible.

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Proposed rules update, 8 July 2023

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Don’t even always have to be glued on. Had a girl I went to school with that had unrealistically large boobs already at 13-14. She was not overweight or anything but was already sporting a D-cup at 15.

Safe to say she was ogled by many teenage boys… and adults.