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How should I surprise my partner sexually?

I think a surprise a bad idea. The surprise should be to ask them what fantasy they want fulfilled. You must be willing to give them a judgment free safe space with which to tell you. If their fantasy does not completely scare you away then try to fulfill. If you find yourself unable to fulfill the fantasy you will have to work hard not to make your partner feel bad.

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How to sleep warm

This is a great write up and very helpful for people who are new. I would personally add, that while I love using a quilt and usually use one if you know you will be frequently below freezing I recommend a bag. When it is the teens or twenties it does not take but a draft or two to really ruin your night.

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