Lemmy creators are overloaded with the massive afflux of people generating 100s of bug reports and questions on top of all their work.

Make sure you donate to help them spend more time on the project!

https://join-lemmy.org/donate

Not for this issue specifically but it's common to forget tunning postgres config, there's some good tips here: https://sematext.com/blog/postgresql-performance-tuning/#database-configuration-parameters-tuning

There are companies that aggregate all the data from Google and other services to match your anonymous data to your actual person so they can match your address name and all personal information to what you do online

Uhm yeah sure

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJgDmyqf/

So with no knowledge of any development work as you state not being a developer you think that the best for Lemmy is that the creators should spend time that they already have very little of to setup some AI that will supposedly help them magically?

AI would require a lot of tunning to do anything remotely useful, instead of suggesting something out of complete ignorance, donate so that they could eventually employ more people to help.

Isn't Steam download peer to peer additionally from their servers?

I've used a few firefox forks but decided to KISS and stay with Firefox.

I use Chrome for work as their dev tools are better and it allows me to easily separate both.

Tl;Dr ?