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Barbie: who saw it?

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I'll back up the previous commenter. Every single woman i know was sexualised by adult men as children. Children, not teens. Like 6-7 onwards was the first I remember personally. Prepare them. Yes you want them to have that perfect childhood and be children, but they also should know that men can be creeps and it's not their fault and not acceptable, and what to do when it happens.

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I'm going to a dance party for the first time. I'm scared of becoming a fly on the wall. What can/should I do if this happens? **Edit: It was a ton of fun. Thank you all for submitting your thoughts**

Chat to other wall flies/bar tender. Dance around in your own(I've seen guys/gals at the salsa bars jiggling round and swinging those hips, there aren't always enough partners). Smile, have a good time. You don't need others to make it a good time, put out a relaxed positive vibe and it'll come back to you

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What about subscription services, food delivery boxes, Spotify, Netflix, anything you can pay for on their behalf to enhance their lives? Can always start out saying you got a two for one deal for 6 months so they don't refuse outright and you can just keep on doing it.

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have any of you had really weird or strange dreams?

Took Champix(anti smoking) for about 6 months, has known side effect of weird dreams.

Thought people were over exaggerating. they were not. The first night a bear is trying to chase me and eat me. Constant intense dreams of people trying to kill me/hunt me.

The last night I took it, dreamt my extended family and I were on vacation, on our way to a concert. Suddenly terrorists were shooting at everyone with machine guns, everyone's running like crazy, somehow the terrorists get up in to cranes and started throwing cars around smashing into buildings. Chaos.

Find refuge in a bar, having a conversation with someone trying to help me find my family, she says 'you look really stressed, do you want a cigarette?' I accept the offered gift of calm, smoked it and woke up.

Champix did help me reduce smoking alot but man those were intense dreams.

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What are your favourite things under 50$ that make your life a bit easier or more pleasant?

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First time trying to add an image! Hopefully works! I did several different varieties, bought green split peas, yellow split peas, red lentils, kidney beans, pearl barley, powdered stock, dried herbs, and I added a separated bag of macaroni so it can be put in later in the cooking method. Super easy, dump it in a pot and add water, add pasta when almost done!

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The snark you may receive from those jealous is astounding! I definitely got 'are you dying' and 'well your not as fat but still...' among other drivel. honestly, fuckem. Be proud of your achievement, you do this for you, not them or their approval. They'll say hurtful things cos they are nasty, keep your chin up, think of some tart responses if you like, but mainly I'd say brush those comments off like you brushed off the weight. Enjoy the cake in moderation and keep on doing what you do