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oh my GOD

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It's not really focused on the experiences of feminine people. If I'm reading the post correctly, it's about a masc person having such developed pecs that they make for nice breasts. While funny and cute, it doesn't have quite enough of that feminine perspective to fit the vibe.

It's a good post, just not for here

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I fucked up big time...and I'm sorry

I don't know everything and only have what I've seen on Lemmy to go off of. Don't take anything I say as anything but some random person on the internet giving her 2 cents. With all that said, I can say is the following:

  • Demanding a trans person stop HRT under threat of homelessness is fucked up. Even if he only ever wanted you to stop kratom, that's something that should never be brought to the table. It was insensitive and rude for him to suggest that, and letting your partner know your boundaries is an important part of having a relationship.
  • The chances of some rando from this tiny platform calling the cops on him or ruining his life is near zero. It's doubtful anybody y'all don't actually know irl would ever do that.
  • You blaming yourself for everything is not helpful for your relationship or your own mental health. You need to be building yourself up, not tearing yourself down because you feel like you need to attone. You have it tough, and it's ok to give yourself grace for what you can't control.