I’m glad I’ve bean here from the start.

Very good coping tools. I’ll get her a note book specific for writing and drawing her feelings about a conflict and sorting her thoughts before discussing. I think one issue is she reacts before she can make better choices.

Losing Apollo made Reddit too hard to use as a visually impaired person, and the quality of reddit is gone now that so many of us long time members left. I deleted my 11 year account because reddit made it clear we don’t matter.

I have so many questions … So does this go between only specific toes, or between each of them like a snake? How often do you change your napkins? What makes your toes rub together in the first place? Or is the discomfort them touching at all? In which case wouldn’t socks have the same issue?

Yes, you’re correct about reward and punishment doesn’t work. Often she reacts to her brother when they are playing Roblox on their iPads. Asking her to put the ipad down or leave the room to calm down ends up with her screaming at her brother that it’s his fault she’s yelling. A few minutes on her own calms her down and we can talk. It sounds like she needs to get a bit older so her brain can mature.

I wouldn’t consider it rude at all especially if someone politely excuses themself. It’s quite considerate to yourself and others actually.

Is that available on iOS?

I’m not autistic, but two of my kids are. I explain to them that nobody is normal, and we all have our own little world in our mind. It’s ok to be different, and make sure to surround oneself with good people. Sometimes people (esecsilly children) can he assholes, but that’s what’s wrong with them not you.

I’m the only severely visually person in my life, and nobody will understand how different the world is for me. That’s ok though because what they do understand is when I need help, and if they don’t it’s ok to speak up and ask for it.

Right now it is growing indoors under grow lights for 10 hours a day sometimes 12. I am in southern California so the low temperature at night is about 60°F and the high temperature during the day is about 85°F the house is about 75°F sometimes closer to 80°F. The crêpe myrtles all around the neighborhood are definitely starting to go dormant, but with the tree still do so under artificial conditions? In the winter the temperature will not drop below about 40°F. Can such a young sapling handle these temperatures? They normally would not sprout until the spring so I had not considered putting it outside.

Edit to add... I live in an apartment with a west facing patio. It would only get sunlight for six hours a day if I left it outside because the first half of the day blocked by the building. That's why it's been growing inside. If six hours is enough at this age I can move it outside

That’s a really cool idea. She’s a bit young especially mentally but we will try that in the future.

There is for sure more understanding of autism now than there was when you were a kid, and unfortunately some parents just don’t understand or learn about autism.

Thank you!

Apollos text in the phone was fairly small, but on the iPad it was big. I’m using liftoff, and I’m super relived I can use large text and zoom in.

I have always validated her feelings, and made sure she understands that she is excepted and loved. I tell her it’s important that we practice but that there is nothing wrong with her feelings. I have a lot of education with autism, but there is always more to learn and I always want to gain more knowledge and insight so that I can be a better parent.

As far as a safe space I got her a pink tent house which is really nice and she loves it. She keeps her art supplies in there and she has a light and a fan to make sure that it is comfortable. It has a soft mat on the bottom and she has a long pink kitty pillow to lay on and snuggle with.

She responds very well to positive reinforcement and praise and affection. I know that she will be OK in the long run. I don’t consider her meltdown to be a burden, but rather I feel bad for her that she is struggling in such a way.

Oh thank you so much.

True, but it’s about keeping a balance. Most of safari is fine and I can zoom in if need be. When text gets too big it messes with layouts. I have my iPad text size to maximum, but that can really mess with stuff.

I tried to get memmy, but it says the test is full. Hopefully it’s released soon. Wefwef just feels better than the other apps as it resembles Apollo.

The picture was right after watering this morning so that may not be an indicator, but definitely good advice about the chopsticks I will do that, thank you

Unfortunately no, but that is definitely something to try in the future.

I remind her that it will get easier as she gets older. Being a kid can be very difficult. I’ll get her a stress stuffed cat to hug if she get upset,

Thank you, we’ll try TIPP.