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nostupidquestions·No Stupid QuestionsbyReanuKeeves

Is it wrong or uncommon to judge people primarily on their worst moments/acts?

I dove into an unfortunate rabbit hole last night about dark redditor confessions. I don't think anyone knows if it's genuine or not but someone claimed to be a child therapist and PDF file.

He even went as far as saying he committed acts with some of his "clients". I personally don't care how many kids he helped out mentally because that kind of abuse, especially in that position is insane. So it got me wondering, do people think the good he's done could ever outweigh the bad?

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nostupidquestions·No Stupid QuestionsbyReanuKeeves

My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this?

What really made my stomach turn is that my Aunt had a smile on her face. At first I took it as maybe she's trying to stay positive about the situation or having some odd nervous reaction but it was a huge huge smile as if she won the lottery. My grandma was not well off by any means so I highly doubt she had much in her will and my uncle was clearly not smiling in the picture.

She was also extremely unempathetic when my dad passed away during my mid 20s, telling me I need to man up and do better in life. I was working, in a relationship and doing my best to help my mom out. Am I overreacting or does she come off as a full blown sociopath?

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