Thanks for fixing and being so open about it

Most sexy lingerie is very uncomfortable to wear and super expensive. If it's only for sexy time, it might not be worth it for her. If it really bothers you, talk to her but please accept it if she doesn't want to. Some women don't feel comfortable in lingerie and that kind of defeats the purpose as well.

I was mostly active on askreddit and haven't found a good asklemmy replacement yet. I'm also dumb and don't understand lemmy that well so I might be missing something obvious

Ik kan wefwef ook echt aanraden, al is de mobiele versie van Lemmy ook helemaal prima

Lekker rustig aan doen, drukke week achter de rug! Hoop weer lekker in de tuin te kunnen zitten en de bqq aan te steken

Wefwef is een fijne app inderdaad!

Yeah that's not an option due to a lot of factors, mainly that our coumtry doesn't allow couples to start the process as there's a lot of issues with adoption worldwide. It's basically a business for some people to find children that rich people from western counties pay good money for to adopt. For example in Congo it's basically impossible for Congolese couples to adopt a baby as there's more money to be made from western couples. It's also very different from having a child that's your own, so even if it was a possibility, we wouldn't want to go down that road.

Which alternatives do you recommend? I've tried a few but most seem to have issues as well, or in case of Tildes, are invite only

Trying for a baby for two an a half years now without success. Started IVF but the first embryo transplant failed. We are lucky we are relatively young and healthy but it sucks that we can't conceive in a normal way (even though we don't know why) and we have a lot of embryo's still in the freezer. It sucks so much and everyone around me just have to look at each other and they're pregnant. I feel so strongly it's never going to happen for us.

Yes it's so hard and so unfair. So many people around me just accidentally get pregnant and I just can't be happy for them anymore. The worst part is no one can promise you it's going to be okay, they can't even give us the odds IVF will work for us.