I feel like it is similar to empathetic feelings in other aspects of life. I am a pretty empathetic person. If someone I am close to is happy, it makes me feel happy. If they are sad, it makes me sad. If they are sexually satisfied, it gives me a sense of satisfaction. It is not intense like an orgasm, but a warm feeling of connection, as well as some pride at being a good sex-doer.

I think levels of empathy vary between individuals. In other aspects of life, do you think you tend towards the lower end of the empathy spectrum?

I don't really get the humiliation either, but if I was being offered good sex, I could do the husband a solid and try insulting him. I am not a dirty talker and it would be pushing my limits, but I could give it a try. Maybe I would find it too uncomfortable, or maybe it would be fine.

I often use penor, though my wife sometimes calls him Dr. Penisface. I am unsure what his PhD is for, but I am guessing it is in the field of Hot Lovin'.

Usually we just share links to things we have found online that we think the other would enjoy, or that showcase an idea or setup we particularly like.

I am so-so with it. It can feel nice, but I have only managed to get off from a blowjob a few times. It is still fun, though.

Blowjobs can be pleasant for a bit, but they don't usually provide me the level of stimulation I need to orgasm. I could probably count on one hand the number of times I have managed to cum from oral alone. I feel in the minority with that preference.

I think semi-open for satisfying your interests sounds great. As they say, different strokes for different folks.

That is pretty wild. The most I have done is turn my partner's butt a dark purple after caning her at a club. She bruises more readily than I was aware, and I was going a bit harder than I thought. I felt bad when I saw the results the next day, because they were more than I expected or intended. I have never actually drawn blood with impact play.

I just tried my first real CNC play a couple days ago, with prolonged wrestling and struggling. It was quite fun and satisfying! Mine was not a scenario with narrative context, though. Maybe next time.

Not at all. A sexual victory by my partner is a win for the team. I can be envious if my friends have had awesome sex, but not my partners.

I don't feel sexual jealousy towards my partners, which seems uncommon. They want a gangbang? Awesome. The more, the merrier.

One of the first times I slept with my first (now ex (now wife)) girlfriend, we were cuddling in bed afterward being romantic. She said to me that I should feel comfortable touching her wherever I wanted. I gazed at her lovingly and said "What if I want to poke you in the eye?" as I jabbed her in the eye with my finger.

It was then that she knew I was The One. 😆

I order the 12 lb. box and store them in two 5 gallon buckets. In recent years I have gotten more into making seitan from wheat gluten powder, but the curls are still a good option and my preferred choice for fajitas.

I agree with you on all counts. The thought of living in a nudist environment kind of terrifies me for that reason. I really enjoy sexually fetishizing nudity, and I think I would miss doing so if it was normalized and I no longer could. 😅

Due to a burn ban, we had to skip our usual Beltane bonfire. We did have sex out of respect for the day, though it was just in bed, not outside.

I made a pair of matching shock collars for my wives. Only one likes to wear it all the time, and she is very much a dog girl. I usually wake up last in the morning, and really like being able to summon my coffee by remote (using the vibration function instead of the shock function. I am nice).

For a pair of pets, I endorse the Dogtra IQ Plus shock collar. Its controller has a slider on the front to switch between two synched collars. I selected it due to an online recommendation and do not have experience with other shock collars, but it has performed as well as I hoped.

The economy is tough, and diamond-studded shock collars aren't cheap...

I have a dull dagger that is my favored tool for wax removal. It is a nice aesthetic.

Lasering the area sounds like it would take some work, but I imagine it is convenient when it is done.

I always thought that the laser machines should have the option of replacing the beep they make when fired with the Star Wars blaster sound effect. Pchew, pchew!

I like a good orgy, but one of my wives has become uncomfortable with them. Unfortunate, but I would not want to cause her discomfort by doing it without her, especially since I would miss her participation. Doing it with my favorite people is much of the appeal! I would have less interest without my loved ones, or at the very least some good friends.

I have had my partner traipsing naked on the roof at night, which had a fun, exhibitionist feel to it. I also had sex with her chained up in a big machine room, which had a great industrial vibe. All after-hours, or I would not have risked it.