+1 and you feel that you are forgetting something important, but you can't remember and the deadline of said something keeps getting closer

Its not an insult, I would agree that I was naive/too sensitive, it was just unexpected and bummer that I wasn't prepared for in a more grown up environment (maybe this is the correct term)?

Truly an outstanding move

I see thanks! I'll focus on the last part. ❤️

I think its being 👍, i recently discovered i am bi so that was a surprise

Thanks! Switched from Reddit to Lemmy recently

I see, cool! 💜

I mean it was a group chat not focused on studies and other people were already sending memes and workout tips there, so I don't really know what I did wrong. Like, it just bothered me, and I am a bit sad that even something so small could bother me,

I replied with "well, its just me I suppose", but I guess misplayed "one year older lol", anyway, thanks! I will just think it was some sort of shitpost and move on and just not talk there if its not necessary. I feel like a snowflake for being bothered by this lol

I mean, I am maybe somewhat sensitive, but its just an unnecessary comment when other person doesn't know you personally, I am already used to getting trash on the internet, never received comment like that before even in HS when the other person clearly knows you personally.
Maybe I should add that the whole chat was just me and another sophmore

I mean its just not common to private chat, I guess it could be interpreted as not mean, but still kinda of uncalled for

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Oh alright, I am gonna check it out

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Its just that I thought that the people from my course would be different, idk its a undergrad math course from a selective uni, but not true I guess. Regardless, thanks for the advice! 💚

It was a general chat where some people were already sending memes and so on, theres a separate group chat dedicated to studies, and its pretty dead most of the time, after some hours since I stopped talking there and no one is writing anything, so I don't really get it why exactly I receive that, he was probably being pranky or something

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I think there's a lot of the societal pressure into avoiding that kind of relationship, it took me some time for me to feel ok by having a crush in a trans girl because that is almost always associated to some kind of fetishization and prejudice. And also, often it can be just their preference.