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Is not that god damn hard.

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I think the trickiest part is finding people on other instances and needing to copy/paste their links in your home instance's search bar before you can follow or reblog, especially if you're following a link someone's shared elsewhere. It's a small nuisance, but it adds up over time, and it's already more work than most social media consumers want to bother with. For Mastodon to truly take off, that needs to be automated or hidden, because most people are going to give up before they even get an explanation.

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Reminder: reddit may be dead, but trolls are not.

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but him saying the word "triggered" is not harmful

It implies that being against hate speech and harassment is a wrong opinion and while completely isolated and out of context it might not seem harmful, it's part of a cultural shift towards normalizing those things, and implies that anyone who cares is wrong. Seeing that go unchallenged just emboldens buttholes like that.

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how do you all not respond to bigots in comments?

Bigots gonna bigot, and no matter what I say they won't listen, so all that's going to happen is I'll get mad and it'll ruin my day and they'll go on blissfully bigoting. I really really try to stop myself, for my own health.

Sometimes it's not about changing their mind though, it's about showing others that there's people who will stand up, and I can't help myself with those.

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Is there 'etiquette' for choosing which instance your migrated subreddit is hosted on?

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At the same time as keeping an eye out for "power tripping jerks" you want to watch for poorly moderated instances as well. Instances with little to no moderation are at risk of being defederated by other instances if they can't stop their users from trolling/harrassing/evading bans/blocks, etc. You don't want to set yourself up on what seems like a big instance only to have it disconnected from the rest of them because bad actors decided it was a safe haven for acting up.

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