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foss·free and open source softwarebyDiceTrauma

Maybe a good alternative to Discord?

I just came across this, and was wondering if anyone out there in the Fediverse has given it a spin? It looks very interesting to me as a more private and secure alternative to Discord. I'd primarily be using it for my gaming group, and one question I can't seem to find the answer to is whether or not the voice chat has push-to-talk. Beyond that, what does everyone think of this?

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asklemmy·Ask LemmybyDiceTrauma

What sort of personality would you call this?

Throughout my adult professional life, I've encountered people who have a (to me, at least) very curious way of interacting with other people. They look at individuals as 'resources' and relationships as 'transactions'. Picture a spider's web of contacts where 'Bob' is replaced with 'has tools I can borrow' and 'Melissa' is replaced with 'can get me into my favorite club without a cover charge'.

I'm trying my best to articulate this. It's like these people only create relationships based upon what material gains it can offer them. They aren't really interested in the PEOPLE so much as the ADVANTAGE a relationship with them affords. Does that make sense?

Now to me, this is very bizarre. I just don't think this way, but I'm told that it's quite common - almost 'the norm'. Is this true? If so, I'm really bewildered by it. What do y'all think?

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asklemmy·Ask LemmybyDiceTrauma

In the US, why doesn't a personal savings account make more sense than health insurance?

Hear me out on this, please.

Let's say that I spend $5k on health insurance in a year, but don't go to the doctor or have any medical issues in that year. Where does my money go? It disappears. I basically just gave away my money, and received nothing in return. However, if I took that $5k and simply put it into a personal savings account instead of giving it away to a health insurance provider - that money stays right there if and whenever I decide to use it. It even collects interest.

I realize that with a health insurance provider, you're (supposedly) getting discounted rates on medical services - but if your money is just disappearing into thin air if you don't happen to need those medical services in a given year, are you really saving money? It just seems like a really big scam to me - what am I missing?

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cooking·Cooking byDiceTrauma

The kind of 'reality TV' cooking show I would love to see...

  • Contestants are not chefs.
  • Contestants are low-to-mid level income parents.
  • A cupboard filled with a small amount of random ingredients found at a local grocery store. NO exotic ingredients. NO pricey ingredients.
  • Contestants must also incorporate randomly selected 'leftovers' from a pre-cooked meal into their dish.
  • The judges are kids ranging in age from 10-18. NO celebrity judges. NO chef judges.
  • First prize is free groceries for a year.
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showerthoughts·ShowerThoughtsbyDiceTrauma

Social media has made me less social.

I'm not sure when or where this occurred, but at some point I just became less inclined to speak up on social media. I still do, of course, but now there's this little...cringe....inside of me whenever I do. The sarcasm, the gaslighting, the armchair 'experts' who seemingly exist just to punch holes in whatever opinion I have - this mean-spiritedness has made me far, far less likely to engage in most conversations online. And, I've watch this translate over into my offline life, as well. It seems like my world has become a gigantic minefield where every step could potentially blow up in my face from someone who somehow got offended by something I said, or someone who has made it their life's mission to correct every opinion I have. I just....stopped engaging, for the most part.

What's even worse is that I've found myself exhibiting the exact same sort of behavior from time to time. It's like social media is trying to train me to be argumentative and rude. Everyone tells me that it's 'just the way it is', but I can't help feeling like we can do better....or at least wishing that we could.

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