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There's an interesting kind of poster that I've only seen here on Lemmy, the "why bother, it's not going to work" poster.

Why vote? It doesn't matter.

Why write or call your rep, they're in the pocket of blah blah anyway?

Why put a bumper sticker in your car? Performative BS, maaaan.

Etm etm...

How do you feel when you see Trump stickers everywhere?

How do you feel when you're in a neighborhood with pride flags everywhere? Is that different and better?

What about when you see Wellstone! sticker in deep red Midwest? A little hope that there are other people who haven't given up?

Show up! Speak out! Be visible! Live into the small moments of joy where resistance lives!

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From where I'm sitting, a 55yo who came out eight years ago, the biggest thing I deal with is grief.

I tried to come out at 23 -- young for the 90's! -- but chickened out in part because of some gatekeeping and also fear. So. Much. Fear. Even then though, my voice had dropped, my beard come in, and and and...

But I was young and hot and around beautiful slackers who would have loved me regardless, and now I carry the grief of 33 years of coulda-been.

That's the price of transitioning in middle age, for me at least.

You might think that an old like me might be resentful of the opportunities available for trans youth today. Absolutely not! Seeing young adults who never had to go through the "wrong" puberty, that gives me so much hope and joy!

I grieve now for the kids who are seeing that hope deferred.

I guess what I'm getting at is that any age you transition at, there may be lost time to grieve, but more than that, it's something to be treasured beyond value.

I celebrate each and every one of you 💕

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They did more than that, their bathroom got blown up by a religious nut over their inclusive bathroom policy, and they re-opened without changing their policy.

They advocated internally for LGBTQ people especially trans people.

That's why this absolute cave, spinning about-face so fast they could start a fire without matches... this is so fucking dumb.

And the people who see it are justifiably disgusted.