A good problem to have - A positive post
It's me again, because I just noticed something in my head, which is, I feel, a good problem too have.
For a while now, whenever I noticed that a lot if my fellow sisters are a bit sad, for a lot of reasons. And every time, my brain is like "I want to cuddle you until you feel better!"
Ever since I stopped with that monogamy altogether, my heart just leaks empathy all over the place. Especially for other trans women it is like... a LOT stronger. You have no idea how cute you all are, for real! If some of you would allow it, I could easily make out until the feelings hurt less and your soul feels just a bit more fine, imagining that is WAY too easy for me!
Which is a good problem to have, because for a long time I was a bit of a misantropic guy, now I swing the opposite. On the outside, I am calm and friendly, but give me consent and you can have kisses on the spot, wherever we stand. No shame, no regret, I rather have to much love then too little and I enjoy sharing. Emotional and physical. Never forget how awesome ane deserving of love you all are, even if "that voice" tells you otherwise, because it lies and has bad taste in ice cream.
So the next time you look in the mirror, remember: The being you see in there is VERY awesome!
Lila, with love, signing off!
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Thank you for the kind post. I’ve been in such a slump. Posting here has really helped me remember that I am beautiful. My confidence is back and my wife loves it.
Thank you for this post! I liked it 🌟
I mean you're not far from my how I feel :x I'm starting to accept that I am cute to others even though it's hard to accept that part for myself :3
I need more women with this mindset in my life.
sincerely, a tired and sad trans fem dragon
🥺 awwww dragon, does dragon want cuddles? Vivvy likes to cuddle
I love cuddles!
snuggles dragon mrrprrrprrmmprr nuzzlenuzzle
If the question is permitted, why... not become that person? Because I too wished for that in my life quite often, people who just love physical contact the same way I do.
Not to das that it is easy, but it is still an option. I hope you, if that is your wish, find the strength to make this change happen alongside all the others you go through.
Stay strong little dragon!
i have tried and it made me more burnt out and tired.
Then I simply wish you the strength to recover and go on, wherever your way leads.
me on my way to cuddle with the other trans girlies:
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thank you for these posts, they always get a little grin out of me :3
If even one of you is smiling because I put these glimmers of happiness out there, I did a good job!
Thanks for letting me know <3
Awww, this is really sweet!
Also is this a hrt thing? In the first week when my levels were still rising I remember a couple times when I saw someone in person I thought were cool my brain reaallly wanted to just hug them, to the point I would be walking slightly closer to them than I would usually, I've never felt that way before, it's really fun, I also felt I needed a hug when I was sad too. For some reason though that stopped happening after that first week and I don't know why, hopefully it'll pop back up.
Hard to tell when it changed, because I started my transition and journey into polyamory ptactically back to back, but it definetly got stronger over time, it is still increasing even now.
I always was a very physically approachable person, hugs, cuddles, even kisses are very normal for me, even before all of this. Perhaps I just allowed myself these impulses increasingly. Either way, it does nothing to change the fact you are all so wonderful and deserving of compassion <3