You can't be in physical sports (you shouldn't be, period, but we all know those with no morals only regulate due to fear), and those who play a lot of online videogames tend to have antisocial tendencies and poor temper management so I guess it all fits. 4chan, at least a decade and a half ago when I used to frequent it, could get very nasty, lol.
Lemmings have been much more reasonable and supportive in my experience, even kind.
Even when someone disagrees with me vehemently, they might use rude words to tell me just how full of shit my comment is, but they don't say "you should kill yourself" like redditors used to (before I left, who knows now that it's all bots).
I hope it stays that way. Anonymity can bring out cruelty, but it can also allow people to express themselves warmly without social posturing.
Most common failure point seems to be people not actually reading my comment properly, and attacking me based on what they "think" I wrote; usually some polarised version that twists my meaning completely. Like in this example, imagine someone replying "so you're saying all Lemmy users are illiterate assholes?!?!" Then everyone agrees with them for some reason, it's pointless trying to clarify at that point.
I've stopped contributing as much because I can't be bothered dealing with the nuclear fallout anymore.
Oh! That's interesting, does it ever cause folks to hop on the downvote train?
(If you answer I won't see it until tomorrow, I'm shutting down for bed)
Anyway, "because I like it" is a good enough reason!
I do sometimes wonder if people see the 0, and that biases their opinion or something. More often I get confused replies wondering why my comment seems broken though 😂
I'm a retired programmer, so starting at 0 makes sense to me. I always thought it was weird that you "like" your own comments by default. I don't like them, I'm neutral towards them.
I used to do it on Reddit as well, but they disabled that feature. Unironically one of the reasons I left that place lol
Well I would defend your right to make your comments satisfy yourself with that nice round zero.
In rebuttal I would argue that, if it means anything, an upvote is supposed to signify "this comment deserves to be here," it contributes to the conversation.
In an election, if you don't want yourself to win enough to vote for yourself, you shouldn't be running. You should just let the other person have it if you think they'd do better.
But I'll grant you that since it's not an election, putting the comment out there is enough. And from what I can see yours all do add value.
some people meeting a person for the first time, in class, or another friends, family or other friends immediately hate each other because they give off vibes they dont like?
Lemmy and Bluesky. I already deleted my Bluesky account and I'm considering deleting this account as well.
People treat me like shit on these sites. Lemmy sure hates my autism despite there supposedly being a lot of autistic people on here. Self hated combined with projection, maybe?
Without trying to be rude, it's often seen as the more annoying of the neurodivergences (with good reasons) so it might just be that. It's sad though, and I'm sorry your experience hasn't been as nice as it could've been. Personally, I think self-descriptive tags like "male/female", "late teens-early 20s/mid 20s-early 30s", "Westerner/non Westerner", "atheist/spiritual - polytheist/monotheist", "moral relativist/moral objectivist", "neurotypical/neurodivergent", "tempered/erratic", etc. , would go a long way in understanding the person we're speaking to and keep things more civil.
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Fucking NPCs on the freeway!
/s of course, but yeah: road rage.
Yep, car drivers
You can't be in physical sports (you shouldn't be, period, but we all know those with no morals only regulate due to fear), and those who play a lot of online videogames tend to have antisocial tendencies and poor temper management so I guess it all fits. 4chan, at least a decade and a half ago when I used to frequent it, could get very nasty, lol.
middle school
Lemmy comments
No, that's more of a Reddit thing.
Lemmings have been much more reasonable and supportive in my experience, even kind.
Even when someone disagrees with me vehemently, they might use rude words to tell me just how full of shit my comment is, but they don't say "you should kill yourself" like redditors used to (before I left, who knows now that it's all bots).
I hope it stays that way. Anonymity can bring out cruelty, but it can also allow people to express themselves warmly without social posturing.
I've had the opposite experience.
Most common failure point seems to be people not actually reading my comment properly, and attacking me based on what they "think" I wrote; usually some polarised version that twists my meaning completely. Like in this example, imagine someone replying "so you're saying all Lemmy users are illiterate assholes?!?!" Then everyone agrees with them for some reason, it's pointless trying to clarify at that point.
I've stopped contributing as much because I can't be bothered dealing with the nuclear fallout anymore.
I'm not sure who downvoted you, it wasn't me. I'm sorry you've had that experience here and hope it improves.
Thanks
:)I remove my own upvote from my comments because I like when it starts at 0
Oh! That's interesting, does it ever cause folks to hop on the downvote train? (If you answer I won't see it until tomorrow, I'm shutting down for bed) Anyway, "because I like it" is a good enough reason!
I do sometimes wonder if people see the 0, and that biases their opinion or something. More often I get confused replies wondering why my comment seems broken though 😂
I'm a retired programmer, so starting at 0 makes sense to me. I always thought it was weird that you "like" your own comments by default. I don't like them, I'm neutral towards them.
I used to do it on Reddit as well, but they disabled that feature. Unironically one of the reasons I left that place lol
Well I would defend your right to make your comments satisfy yourself with that nice round zero.
In rebuttal I would argue that, if it means anything, an upvote is supposed to signify "this comment deserves to be here," it contributes to the conversation.
In an election, if you don't want yourself to win enough to vote for yourself, you shouldn't be running. You should just let the other person have it if you think they'd do better.
But I'll grant you that since it's not an election, putting the comment out there is enough. And from what I can see yours all do add value.
Football games. Yes, the sport u play with ur feet.
Especially Sunday league!
You didn't see that video of Zelensky visiting the White House?
some people meeting a person for the first time, in class, or another friends, family or other friends immediately hate each other because they give off vibes they dont like?
In traffic.
The internet. The freeway. Prisons...
War?
In the US there were racists yelling at black people for going to the same school during desegregation.
A preemptive /s
What a bad thread.
Delete your account. Never come back.
Tradies to their apprentices
Republicans are out literally killing people for not being fascist enough...
Lemmy and Bluesky. I already deleted my Bluesky account and I'm considering deleting this account as well.
People treat me like shit on these sites. Lemmy sure hates my autism despite there supposedly being a lot of autistic people on here. Self hated combined with projection, maybe?
Without trying to be rude, it's often seen as the more annoying of the neurodivergences (with good reasons) so it might just be that. It's sad though, and I'm sorry your experience hasn't been as nice as it could've been. Personally, I think self-descriptive tags like "male/female", "late teens-early 20s/mid 20s-early 30s", "Westerner/non Westerner", "atheist/spiritual - polytheist/monotheist", "moral relativist/moral objectivist", "neurotypical/neurodivergent", "tempered/erratic", etc. , would go a long way in understanding the person we're speaking to and keep things more civil.
ant
Zionists have entered the room..
Does a roast count?
Parisian subway
Poker game.