If Men Could Menstruate - A Satire by Gloria Steinem
Published in 1978, Gloria Steinem imagines a world where men could menstruate.
It's important to take this in the context with which it was written, so keep the time period in mind.
Living in India made me understand that a white minority of the world has spent centuries conning us into thinking a white skin makes people superior, even though the only thing it really does is make them more affected by ultraviolet rays and wrinkles.
Reading Freud made me just as skeptical about penis envy. The power of giving birth makes “womb envy” more logical, and an organ as external and unprotected as the penis makes men very vulnerable indeed.
But listening recently to a woman describe the unexpected arrival of her menstrual period (a red stain had spread on her dress as she argued heat- edly on the public stage) still made me cringe with embarrassment. That is, until she explained that, when finally informed in whispers of the obvious event, she said to the all-male audience, “and you should be proud to have a menstruating woman on your stage. It’s probably the first real thing that’s happened to this group in years!” Laughter. Relief. She had turned a negative into a positive. Somehow her story merged with India and Freud to make me finally understand the power of positive thinking.
Whatever a “superior” group has will be used to justify its superiority, and whatever and “inferior” group has will be used to justify its plight. Black men were given poorly paid jobs because they were said to be “stronger” than white men, while all women were relegated to poorly paid jobs because they were said to be “weaker.” As the little boy said when asked if he wanted to be a lawyer like his mother, “Oh no, that’s women’s work.” Logic has nothing to do with oppression.
So what would happen if suddenly, magically, men could menstruate and women could not?
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Haha, she was great, wasn't she? (RIP)
Unfortunately, I was just a little sprat when she and others were going great guns for feminism in the 70's and thereabouts.
For some reason she was outside my school curricula growing up, so I never really got a firm grasp on what she was about. Margaret Mead was another. Brilliant women, and I feel like a total doofus not getting to know their work better. (insert Chris Farley moment, smacking himself in the head, haha)
A microscopic little tribute of mine:
https://piefed.social/c/[email protected]/p/2370749/first-things-first-rip-gloria-steinem
Margaret Mead is one of my heroes. A coworker got me into her, telling me stories about her while we were deep in the bush because he was studying sociology at the time. Amazing woman who faced some significant, pointed backlash from less qualified men.
Her theories are still very important today.
Bloody hell, and isn't that always the way?
@(*&!$#!
@Wren that's a weird unfalsifiable mental experiment, I mean what if men laid ostrich eggs? But have a look at her anti-man, anti-family and ultimately anti-woman messages. Or even at the stuff on breaking the law if women won't profit from it, or exploiting the law when they'd gain some benefits
Then laying ostrich eggs would be considered "proof" men were superior. That's Steinem's whole point.
Anti-man, anti-family, anti-women... do you copy paste those on everything that's considered feminist? Fun fact, feminism is just about everyone being treated with the same respect and given the same rights and freedoms regardless of sex or gender. If you're against that, what does that say about you?
@Nefara look, let's just be honest here, if we just disagreed on the name, you call it feminism, I call it egalitarianism, fine, it's the same, you wouldn't be wasting your time going through my comments desperately looking for something to fault me with. You'd be like oh that's the weirdo that calls feminism in a funny way but potato potato we're all friends! Clearly that's not the case, it's fine but at least have the guts to clearly say what you stand for
Ah, ok, so you're one of those people who have just completely accepted the demonized strawman that backwards reactionaries conjured for you in order make women's struggles for the rights and freedoms men have enjoyed for centuries somehow unreasonable. Got it.
I read your comment three times and still don't know what you're saying.