is vaginosexual a thing? or is it just called gynesexual? Also does anyone know about those other terms to refer to people's sexialities like greysexuals and pansexuals?
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As in a person who's sexual desire is dictated by their attraction to only people who have pussies? Can I ask questions about sexuality like that here?
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Gynesexual would be attraction towards all women, so your term of vaginosexual would seem to be more accurate, yeah
I mean... Maybe I'm biased or misunderstanding, but are sexualities based on component parts like that actually sexualities? Or are they just attractions?
Like, do we need a sexuality for people who are attracted to blonde hair? Or glasses?
you actually raise a good point. We have things like sapiosexuals who are attracted to the complex intellect and deep emotional insight another person can make about themselves or others a this ability to be so insightful ...is a component....Right? But there is a sexual attraction towards it which we havve acknowledged the existence of.
So will there ever be a time when one certain component of a person will be accepted as a norm as turning somebody on? Like suppose a person is only attracred to another person who ks of a certain BMI and NOBODUY else and will we have a word for this phenomena?
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Also do peoole here accept the existence of people pansexual , demisexual, sapiosexual?
as in... you're into chicks+enbies+dudes with vaginas? (asking mostly just because this is the type of question i would expect to be asked by a straight man)
it's not impossible or anything, but it's the first time i've heard of someone defining their sexuality by preference for genitalia. i've heard of people defining it by the negative (e.g. "i don't like people with pussies") or despite them (e.g "i like people regardless of their genitals"). but this would be the first time i hear of a preference for a particular one, regardless of gender
how do you know if you are attracted to people before you know what equipment they're working with?
I actually have some attraction to people who have a feminine public appearance with the 'hourglass shape' but if I saw a femme prresenting person with that 'hourglass shape' but they told me they have a dick and wantred to bang? I would simply say : ' Sorry Im not your type. Youre probably a great person and I hope you meet who is out there for you' I would actually rather have sex with a masculine , muscular, burly tatted up dad- bod dude with a pussy than with ANYONE with a dick now that I think about it. I remmember watching those FTM porn videos of the FTM people who elected to keep their pussies and being unusually turned on by it. But simultaneously I also found thstt I still get turned on by femme presenting people with pussies too. So I figured that there was one common denominator in these groups that is turning me on.
And yes, as far as my cock is concerned it gets turned on by ANYINE whether thhey be enbies, masc, femme, agendered, androgynous , etc.... who has a pussy.
awesome. rock on friend 👊
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I imagine a buff lumberjack with a vag and a hot babe with a dick and there is absolutely no contest. It's all about the femininity for me, regardless of what's in their pants. But you would prefer the lumberjack in this scenario?
....thinking about it.....yes I actually would. No joke. I dont know why Im like this but I am who I how I am and Im not hurting anybody by liking big ol' DILFs with pussies.
We each shouldnt be afraid to take ahold of our true sexualities 🥰✊🏿
Fascinating. Very curious. I can't wrap my head around that. Maybe I'm just a simple guy with simple dreams.
I dunno, I think the point of no return has happened.
We've progressed enough overall that trying to limit "sexuality", as in orientation, to only that which is inborn simply isn't relevant. Sexuality, as in tagging -sexual to the end of a term to mean that the term is the core facet of one's sexual attraction is, as a construct, displacing the old paradigm of hetero/bi/homo where it is assumed that your orientation is the totality of your sexuality, and can thus be used as the core labelling universally.
But, yes, once you factor in that genitals may or may not "match" the nore commonly assumed other traits that people use to filter possible sexual partners, you run into the use case where terminology such as gynesexual becomes useful.
Hell, that's not even covering that sexual and romantic attraction aren't always linked, that it's possible to be heterosexual but biromantic (as a single example).
And I think it's perfectly valid to have a set of attractions that is limited by genital (or other) configuration. We are (hopefully) moving into a paradigm where it's understood that genitals aren't the defining characteristic of man/woman/otherhood. Never have been, but I hope society at large will eventually recognize the fact of it. Color me optimistic in the face of the current wave of bigotry.
I don't think vaginasexual is one that's going to pan out into common usage though. Too clunky. Besides, the vagina is only the inside part on a technical level, so it kinda bypasses the usual "rule" that such terminology be vaguely accurate in medicalese.
But yeah, if pussy is your determining factor, and there's a term for that, it's a thing. Just not sure a term has been totally adopted by consensus yet
I doubt there will be a term that is befitting for many sexualities and romantic interests catches on amongst thhe public any time soon . Like not only for me, I mean also for demiromantic or greyromantic or allosexual peoples too. Based on who Ive talked to over the years, and yes that inccludes young adults too Ive talked to, many people still see sexuality in the patriarchal and long overduue way or being straight is 'good and normal' and being gay is 'weird and sometimes even wrong' and being bisexual or asexual or pansexual is 'impossible' and 'uSeLesS tErMs' 😒 . I feel that as of now people are quite too bigoted to accept such terms as aromantic or greysexual or demisexual or whatever I am. Surely one day this will change for the better....
Im OK with that I guess. You cant force people to want something. We can only tell them how itll benefit them and hope they accept such changes.
I'm asexual/greysexual. Ask me anything.
I guess Ill start with you. how does that even work in your case? Like I mean being asexual and greysexual simultaneously? Like youre only physically attracted to stangers but youve never had a desire to go to bed with any of them?
That's kinda exactly it. For me, sex was just never the selling point. Not to sound corny, but I was always more about understanding the person and becoming friends than I was about trying to get in their pants.
Glad thatt youre owning your sexuality. 🫂✊🏿
You just need to make sure that you declare your wants and needs early on when dating. It helps if you say "Pussy" and low as your voice will go, and pop the P as hard as you can. It helps to have a long, dramatic inhale right before you say it.
So would Pwussysexual be a more catchy term for it? 😼