you either die a child or grow old enough to treat your child the way you would have liked to be treated... if u feel like it. I know many peeps here hate children.
It's fair to say there are tops who don't receive constructive criticism well, but those of us who do absolutely depend on that feedback to give what's wanted and/or needed.
There's no shortage of subs who give no information during or after. There's only so many times I can ask questions only to have no reply beyond a "yes mistress" or "harder please" ... I can't punish you into giving thoughtful feedback :-/
This might be harder for me, because being autistic I'm not the best at reading body cues, but I try to be honest about my limitations.
Yes, it does relate to orange, but not entirely. They're a dom at heart who could only really sub for someone stronger than them, but still they still desire to be dominated.
Also, I'm happy you admit that orange is a specific person :3
oh ummmm.... I did admit it in matrix chat, they were there too and even, completely coincidentally said, that if they at some point should show up in a comic, theyd wanna be rainbow colored. so i... didnt want to make the connection too obvious and stayed vaguer about the whole thing. thats also why I leaned in so hard about Lilacs sadness, cuz if the connection were clearer... well that would sound like I was being hurt, which is false... I'm overlapping, yesyes.
I feel seen. I rarely switch and if I do, I know there are some thing that I like and try on my partner and I know that gets them going because it does for me (well I'm mostly right about that, at least to the 2 sexual partners I've ever had.).
Never met someone who is fully top though and couldn't experience it for now.
I can be either, depending on what the sub wants tbh. I just get off on other people getting as much pleasure as they can have.
I love a good soft Dom myself but I can also be a pain slut depending on where I'm at in my cycle, so I understand the appeal of both. Hell I also love a good soft psychological dom that uses degradation to play mind games with me .
All I'm interested in when I dom is seeing somebody whimper and beg for me, by any means.
Right?? It's the bessst ugh. I'm a sucker for the "you're a disgrace and I don't know why I want you so badly" kind of trope haha, like someone is struggling to reconcile why they're so attracted to such a loser 🤭
lol, I've recently started training my wife to top, mostly to help with her self confidence outside the bedroom, and I've gotta say ... I'm getting a LOT more out of the experience than I thought I would
Oh i think we're talking two different bottoms here, I am not speaking dom/sub bottom. I don't really dig the dynamic, I'm a cuddler who likes to make people feel good, more of a hedonist than anything.
Same, tho I don't think of the typical stuff when the topic of dom and sub come up. That is making ppl feel good as far as I'm concerned, its why as much of a bottom as I am, I like to top as well. I wanna make ppl feel good :3
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I'll die a bottom >:)
you either die a child or grow old enough to treat your child the way you would have liked to be treated... if u feel like it. I know many peeps here hate children.
I'm assuming the word is supposed to be peeps and not pedos. I hope you don't know many pedos.
Your cat's arm looks like a dick.
Yes, I'm the same person who saw the dick and commented last time (different account).
No, don't change your pfp please. It's too funny.
yes, i meant like ones literal children, as in, you are a parent.
if I knew pedos, I wouldnt mind much, maybe try and get them on a better path with things or help them find help.
EIDT: whoops, yea ur right, it really said "peeos", fair, thats my bad. fixed it, thanks for pointing it out ~
It's fair to say there are tops who don't receive constructive criticism well, but those of us who do absolutely depend on that feedback to give what's wanted and/or needed.
There's no shortage of subs who give no information during or after. There's only so many times I can ask questions only to have no reply beyond a "yes mistress" or "harder please" ... I can't punish you into giving thoughtful feedback :-/
This might be harder for me, because being autistic I'm not the best at reading body cues, but I try to be honest about my limitations.
I feel this sooooo hard
I need all the information on how what I am doing is being received, thank you
Thankfully my partner/sub is pretty good at it
also part of it is I'm pretty sure I am a service dom/(and top? idk) and I enjoy maximizing and optimizing my partner's pleasure...Nothing wrong with being a service top, as long as you get satisfaction from it!
Edit to add: Meanwhile I struggle with not being bossy at everyone around me, lol
kinda me :3
except that i dont do it the way i wanna recieve it i do it the way the one recieving wants
i just wanna make my partners happy >w<
im a subservient people-pleasing puppy :3
im second- or think im second. i wanna be second. i wanna make others feel good --- cuz thats a really special feeling.
edit: ALSO!!! hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i wonder if this relates to someone hHmMMMMMmMmmmMm... that likely wasnt intentioned (I don't mean myself)
No, it kinda was intentional
whaaaat well now I'm wondering who u were addressing with this cuz I dont think we are thinking of the same person..... maybe.
you aren't talking about Orange, are you?...
Yes, it does relate to orange, but not entirely. They're a dom at heart who could only really sub for someone stronger than them, but still they still desire to be dominated.
Also, I'm happy you admit that orange is a specific person :3
oh ummmm.... I did admit it in matrix chat, they were there too and even, completely coincidentally said, that if they at some point should show up in a comic, theyd wanna be rainbow colored. so i... didnt want to make the connection too obvious and stayed vaguer about the whole thing. thats also why I leaned in so hard about Lilacs sadness, cuz if the connection were clearer... well that would sound like I was being hurt, which is false... I'm overlapping, yesyes.
So being a top is basically like being a D&D DM then?
It's the noble task. Know the rules, make the adventure and give them the imaginary time of their lives, so you can imagine being among them.
(And you kinda are tbh, those skeletons and goblins are nothing but a boogieman disguise for the unseen member of the gang).
I feel seen. I rarely switch and if I do, I know there are some thing that I like and try on my partner and I know that gets them going because it does for me (well I'm mostly right about that, at least to the 2 sexual partners I've ever had.).
Never met someone who is fully top though and couldn't experience it for now.
I'm almost certain I'm just going to die alone. There is no top. There is no bottom. There is just forward.
It's still good to know what you'd want really, even if you don't believe it will ever happen
I’m actively transforming as we speak
This is way too true. Also switches are the cruelest doms (in the best way)
not me
i have no idea how to be cruel in an enjoyable hot way
when dominating, i am quite soft
I can be either, depending on what the sub wants tbh. I just get off on other people getting as much pleasure as they can have.
I love a good soft Dom myself but I can also be a pain slut depending on where I'm at in my cycle, so I understand the appeal of both. Hell I also love a good soft psychological dom that uses degradation to play mind games with me .
All I'm interested in when I dom is seeing somebody whimper and beg for me, by any means.
OwO
need need need need need need
Right?? It's the bessst ugh. I'm a sucker for the "you're a disgrace and I don't know why I want you so badly" kind of trope haha, like someone is struggling to reconcile why they're so attracted to such a loser 🤭
... you rang?
🤭
This is kind of the opposite for me.
When I was younger I used to switch, but really always preferred being a bottom.
Nowadays I just wanna be a sub; If someone doesn't like that I can find another woman who will.
Third option: Power Bottom
lol, I've recently started training my wife to top, mostly to help with her self confidence outside the bedroom, and I've gotta say ... I'm getting a LOT more out of the experience than I thought I would
I've been told I'm the last actual top.
I've had numerous surgeries on my booty, its not a place anyone is allowed to go for good reason. Already have enough fucking issues down there.
Anyway, it would be nice to meet a bottom who is okay with this Shrek-looking motherfucker someday.
I dub thee The Booty Shreker
I bet you're Shrexy 😘
if only.
edit: I hate my own brain, I wish compliments didn't always make me feel worse.
Yeah I'm sorry about that. My partner has a similar bully for a brain -- compliments don't work for them either. Love 💜
It's not your fault, no way you could have known, thank you for understanding though.
Do you top because you want to top, or because you have to? Like if all the booty complications didn't exist, what would you want the most?
Fair question, I also want to top, but I've also run across women so beautiful that I'd turn to bottoming just to be with them.
Edit: to be clear I am really just lonely and desperate more than anything
Bottoming doesn't require anal, btw. There are many, many ways to be submissive.
Oh i think we're talking two different bottoms here, I am not speaking dom/sub bottom. I don't really dig the dynamic, I'm a cuddler who likes to make people feel good, more of a hedonist than anything.
Same, tho I don't think of the typical stuff when the topic of dom and sub come up. That is making ppl feel good as far as I'm concerned, its why as much of a bottom as I am, I like to top as well. I wanna make ppl feel good :3
That makes sense, I'm a woman so most of the bottoming im familiar with is dom/sub, sorry! Hahaha
No worries whatsoever 😄
Any bottoms out there who do more than starfish wya?!