part of me doesn't like telling people how big, because i want them to want to fuck me for me. but its big, and i find it really funny being bigger than people who care way too much about that.
Stupid question: are we talking about the penis of a transman? Is it actually generally bigger than the average cisman’s? I just assumed the surgery could not achieve that, but I don’t actually know anything about the surgery.
Phalloplasty followed by medical tattooing can result in some spectacularly realistic (and decently sized) penii.
The sugery is brutal though, don't go looking this up if you're not ready to see extreme gore.
In summary though, flesh is taken from the forearm or the back of the thigh and grafted over (usually) a flexible rod (the other option is a flaccid inflatable, with the pump concealed in a bollock) on the mons pubis, to create the penis.
Optionally plumbing can slso be linked up, so one can stand to piss, and balls can be inserted. Along with all that, surgically closing the vulva/vaginal canal is also an option too.
I spent way too much time looking into this at one point. Things may have changed a bit since then when it come to phallo, but I doubt much.
i have so many questions, like, some of my favorite memories are being traumatized walking in on my mother watching the public access surgery show. i want to talk shop with one of the surgeons basically some of the tools they can use are really cool. not osteo though, they just use hammers.
I know there are lots of different scenarios, but isn’t the meme referring to someone who has undergone phalloplasty, which I assume is most commonly someone assigned female at birth?
taking you at your word that you're being genuine, this meme is referring to the common situation where a cis man is fetishizing a trans woman while assuming she still has her default hardware (i.e. hasn't had bottom surgery) and asking inappropriate questions to her ("how big is it")
you may direct further questions to me via DM; asking these questions in the context of this meme seems to be being received poorly, for understandable reasons, even if your intentions are genuinely to understand
I’m just really sick of hearing cis people ask about trans people’s dicks. I’d almost rather if you asked chat gpt and got a hallucination. It does not matter if you are able to visualize what a trans persons dick looks like. There is just no way you’d ever need that information.
iirc, penile inversion vaginoplasty (which i think is the most common technique of vaginoplasty?) takes penile tissue to create a neovagina. so, the more penile tissue you have, the better your results are likely to be.
Can phallo create a foreskin? If so, I wonder if there's ever been a peculiar Jewish trans man who got phallo, got it with a foreskin, and then went through with circumcision. Just the right Venn diagram of trans status and idiosyncratic religious beliefs.
The more tissue there is, the more depth that can ultimately be created per standard penile inversion. I know a handful of women who have gone through the process, those with smaller initial material ultimately went for zero-depth vaginoplasties because creating a sufficient vaginal canal would require a more involved surgery. Fortunately the ones who received the zero-depth are both lesbians so penetration wasn't as significant of a desire for them as just getting rid of the nope rope.
I had a partner that kept their testes in a jar after her orchiectomy. Very good ice breaker lmao
Since the penile tissue is typically used for bottom surgey, it wouldnt really be possible to "keep" like that. Its more of a rearrangement than a cutting off.
Oh sure its none on my business at all which is why I never ask. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't wonder or I wouldn't look if offered.
I feel like the only time it would be my business at all is if they were a romantic partner but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have to wonder if that were the case.
Probably, everyone is weird. But why should you care? Maybe you're ACE, maybe you just don't give a fuck, maybe a billion other reasons. None of it matters if you are happy.
I think about a lot of physical traits I find hot in women, but unless I'm prompted, I just don't consider genitals. It's not like I'd see them until we're already dtf
I used to game with this tgirl a lot. We were really close and the amount of people that would ask me about what was in her pants was annoying. Like no one would ask her directly, it was always me. I think people sometimes assumed we were together even though she had zero interest in me but that makes it even weirder.
It's always disheartening to hear what these creeps say behind our backs. Still, I'd rather hear about it than be kept in the dark. Thank you for sharing.
::: spoiler fun naughty story
i was in rehab with this guy who told us about a sexy encounter he had with a woman, pretty sure drugs were involved, said he reached around the front side of her and felt her dick and it made him nut instantly, it was a really wholesome rehab moment, i still think about it
:::
Big difference between being asked if you want to do something and saying no as opposed to volunteering that you don't want to do something when nobody asked.
"It" in this case being an actual human being. If he wanted to masturbate to the vague concept of a woman with a penis he could give her any size dick he fancies without being creepy and transphobic to real people.
I'm cishet myself, mom and friend of trans people. And the answer is yes. But also, be careful because sometimes you don't know when "we" includes one of "them." I happen to agree anyway, but many don't.
Note the red cap. Hateful chasers arent to be empathized with. Racists often find people of color attractive sexually. The amount of slave owners that sexually abused slaves is innumerable.
Someone telling me they want to jack off whole thinking about me, especially someone I don't know well, is nasty. Not in any way positive or complimentary.
Chasers don't deserve any positive interaction.
I also don't see any hostile reply, just someone trying to backdpeddal after their comment wasn't as funny when other people see it.
The comic is a joke is making fun of chasers. It's fine to make fun of chasers and laugh about the awful experiences we have.
The person replied with a yourjokebutworse and people got mad because the delivery was so bad and there were no /j or /s indicators to make it clear it was even trying to be a joke.
part of me doesn't like telling people how big, because i want them to want to fuck me for me. but its big, and i find it really funny being bigger than people who care way too much about that.
En Garde!
I see your schwartz is as big as mine!
Now let's see how you handle it!
Un grande¡
How about wanting to fuck you because my mommy never loved me is that okay
This text should be on a shirt lol, awesome
i feel like it should be on the back of that "google boobs trust me" shirt
I mean you did comment this on the internet but good job you’re nonchalant and chill about it etc
Stupid question: are we talking about the penis of a transman? Is it actually generally bigger than the average cisman’s? I just assumed the surgery could not achieve that, but I don’t actually know anything about the surgery.
no im trans femme
Phalloplasty followed by medical tattooing can result in some spectacularly realistic (and decently sized) penii.
The sugery is brutal though, don't go looking this up if you're not ready to see extreme gore.
In summary though, flesh is taken from the forearm or the back of the thigh and grafted over (usually) a flexible rod (the other option is a flaccid inflatable, with the pump concealed in a bollock) on the mons pubis, to create the penis. Optionally plumbing can slso be linked up, so one can stand to piss, and balls can be inserted. Along with all that, surgically closing the vulva/vaginal canal is also an option too.
I spent way too much time looking into this at one point. Things may have changed a bit since then when it come to phallo, but I doubt much.
i have so many questions, like, some of my favorite memories are being traumatized walking in on my mother watching the public access surgery show. i want to talk shop with one of the surgeons basically some of the tools they can use are really cool. not osteo though, they just use hammers.
omg that's awesome, they're doing whack-it-into-a-dick?
Along with half the teenage population yeah
Thanks so much for your reply!
Trans woman
I know there are lots of different scenarios, but isn’t the meme referring to someone who has undergone phalloplasty, which I assume is most commonly someone assigned female at birth?
taking you at your word that you're being genuine, this meme is referring to the common situation where a cis man is fetishizing a trans woman while assuming she still has her default hardware (i.e. hasn't had bottom surgery) and asking inappropriate questions to her ("how big is it")
you may direct further questions to me via DM; asking these questions in the context of this meme seems to be being received poorly, for understandable reasons, even if your intentions are genuinely to understand
You're literally doing the thing in the meme right now. I can't believe you're getting replies.
I hope I haven’t offended anyone. I’m coming from a place of wanting to learn. I support trans rights.
I’m just really sick of hearing cis people ask about trans people’s dicks. I’d almost rather if you asked chat gpt and got a hallucination. It does not matter if you are able to visualize what a trans persons dick looks like. There is just no way you’d ever need that information.
i never gave a shit about my dick size (perhaps a sign?) but apparently vaginoplasty works better the bigger it is :/
Source? Because big if true
iirc, penile inversion vaginoplasty (which i think is the most common technique of vaginoplasty?) takes penile tissue to create a neovagina. so, the more penile tissue you have, the better your results are likely to be.
I feel the same way about circumcision as I do about surgery, sounds owchie owwie.
i mean, they have managed to figure out the owchie owwie part. they don't do that anymore, but they know how to.
Can phallo create a foreskin? If so, I wonder if there's ever been a peculiar Jewish trans man who got phallo, got it with a foreskin, and then went through with circumcision. Just the right Venn diagram of trans status and idiosyncratic religious beliefs.
The more tissue there is, the more depth that can ultimately be created per standard penile inversion. I know a handful of women who have gone through the process, those with smaller initial material ultimately went for zero-depth vaginoplasties because creating a sufficient vaginal canal would require a more involved surgery. Fortunately the ones who received the zero-depth are both lesbians so penetration wasn't as significant of a desire for them as just getting rid of the nope rope.
Huge even
Conservatives are obsessed about what's in other people's pants.
They're so sexually repressed they take it out on everybody else. If they were allowed to be kinky without shame, we wouldn't be here
NGL I always wonder how big it is too, it wouldn't make any difference if I wanted to fuck you or not, but I still wonder.
Around 20cm
Americans: Alright, keep your secrets
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the question wasn't even directed at u!!!
Yes, but there might be lesbian size queens reading.
::: spoiler I'm totally not interested or anything!!!! :::
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🥺
It wasn't but I also wanted to know how big theirs was so they saved me the trouble of asking.
😘
Be still my beating heart.
I'm disappointed you didn't take this opportunity to express its size as 2 dickimeters.
🤦
It's 20 cockimeters
When I wonder stuff like that I end up saying "You know what, it's their business if they cut it or kept it"
It would be hilarious to cut it off and keep it in a "pickle jar".
Not gunna lie that would get my attention. Wanna see my dick? Pulls out a pickle jar.
LMFAO
I had a partner that kept their testes in a jar after her orchiectomy. Very good ice breaker lmao
Since the penile tissue is typically used for bottom surgey, it wouldnt really be possible to "keep" like that. Its more of a rearrangement than a cutting off.
Oh sure its none on my business at all which is why I never ask. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't wonder or I wouldn't look if offered.
I feel like the only time it would be my business at all is if they were a romantic partner but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have to wonder if that were the case.
I honestly don't wonder, even if I'm interested in somebody. Am I weird?
Probably, everyone is weird. But why should you care? Maybe you're ACE, maybe you just don't give a fuck, maybe a billion other reasons. None of it matters if you are happy.
(I hope you are happy)
I think about a lot of physical traits I find hot in women, but unless I'm prompted, I just don't consider genitals. It's not like I'd see them until we're already dtf
Agreeed. Like, at that point it's just a logistics issue.
Inaccurate, they usually say something way more gross, usually something that is very revealing about only them
I used to game with this tgirl a lot. We were really close and the amount of people that would ask me about what was in her pants was annoying. Like no one would ask her directly, it was always me. I think people sometimes assumed we were together even though she had zero interest in me but that makes it even weirder.
It's always disheartening to hear what these creeps say behind our backs. Still, I'd rather hear about it than be kept in the dark. Thank you for sharing.
It happened enough times that she told me I didn't have to bother her with it anymore.
You know what they say about big hands.
That people with big hands have massive tits?
I like this more :3
so my tits are gonna get even bigger? 🥹
no, that they have 4 tits. how else do you think they are all drinking?
big gloves?
::: spoiler fun naughty story i was in rehab with this guy who told us about a sexy encounter he had with a woman, pretty sure drugs were involved, said he reached around the front side of her and felt her dick and it made him nut instantly, it was a really wholesome rehab moment, i still think about it :::
How average is not giving a fuck?
Big difference between being asked if you want to do something and saying no as opposed to volunteering that you don't want to do something when nobody asked.
"It" in this case being an actual human being. If he wanted to masturbate to the vague concept of a woman with a penis he could give her any size dick he fancies without being creepy and transphobic to real people.
Another part of maturity is letting others live their lives without confronting them on the street like that moron.
(Or at the bathroom door. Trans people aren't out there with signs protesting cishets, calling them disgusting, or beating them up for existing.)
Can we admit privately that they're disgusting and their culture is a fucking Miyazaki swamp even if we're too polite to say
I'm cishet myself, mom and friend of trans people. And the answer is yes. But also, be careful because sometimes you don't know when "we" includes one of "them." I happen to agree anyway, but many don't.
If I'm not careful I only hurt straight cis persons feelings and that is no great thing
Note the red cap. Hateful chasers arent to be empathized with. Racists often find people of color attractive sexually. The amount of slave owners that sexually abused slaves is innumerable.
Sexual attraction isn't a default compliment
Its a bit saying he'saying he's gonna jack off about you later tho
Yes.... thats not a compliment in itself when they are being transphobic
You're reply hostile to the idea of a joke at the expense of chuds
Where joke
No really, please explain the joke.
Someone telling me they want to jack off whole thinking about me, especially someone I don't know well, is nasty. Not in any way positive or complimentary.
Chasers don't deserve any positive interaction.
I also don't see any hostile reply, just someone trying to backdpeddal after their comment wasn't as funny when other people see it.
This isnt a joke comic. This is the trans experience
The comic is a joke is making fun of chasers. It's fine to make fun of chasers and laugh about the awful experiences we have.
The person replied with a yourjokebutworse and people got mad because the delivery was so bad and there were no /j or /s indicators to make it clear it was even trying to be a joke.
No offense but I think the joke itself was a little clunky and awkwardly delivered. It just didn't really land well for some people.