So far I pretty much only cuddled with men. (Cuddling and holding hands on a friendship level should be really normalized.) The community doesn’t have any limitations regarding orientation.
I... honestly don't know. I have some identity troubles, really. I can't list my quality, the things I like, I don't know amything about myself, somehow.
Is there a color which looks interesting? Don’t think too much about it.
(I might paint my nails turquoise some day in a distant future. Just because that nail polish color peaked my interest more then others for unexplainable reasons)
I am sorry to hear that. But if you are stuck in a strict home where even your hair color is restricted. I don’t want arm chair to much but that often means that you don’t get a chance t explore and test who you are. Hugs and I hope you get to find yourself soon!
I WOULD be a MCYT or anything else YT, but I'm unable to develop any skills plus I'm literally being hunted by an entire Discord server and they recognize part of my face, my art style, have my address and my behavior, so... :)
I still don't feel like being caught online by the people that hunt me around. VTuber softwares may fail, even for a few frames, and show my face and/or voice.
I don't think so, I don't know, I never tried. I have strict parents, they'd watch over all of my streams and if their super-religious minds find a single detail "satanic" they'd forbid me
damn I'm like 4ish out of 25 (I'm only jealous of some women sometimes.)
I always knew I was a bit of an imposter on this comm due to being employed and having had sex, but I didn't know there was such an emphasis on prudishness. I thought this was the place where all the cool unstable hot bitches hung out. who's out here covering all their skin and wearing granny panties?
I don't think it's prudishness, I think it's more like embarrassment and comfort. At least, comfort is my guess for the granny panties part. I don't wear those.
I do cover up a lot as a way to hide my body. It helps to alleviate dysphoria. And I get the impression that there are a lot of other transfems here as well. Maybe there are cis girls here that cover up because they are unhappy with their appearance as well.
oh damn you're so right, I hadn't considered like the pre or mid transition transfemmes. All the girlies I know have transitioned, and they're all very happy with their bodies now and like to show them off.
I hope it's not talking about RadFems. Like, the TERF/SWERF types. I don't like those and don't really consider them to be feminists at all. If it means being strongly committed to feminism, though, then I'm in.
If it means being strongly committed to feminism, though, then I’m in.
Yeah, I'm with you on this.
Like my general misanthropy and lack of desire to socialise is all inclusive and I'm basically everything the terfs, swerfs and faschy folk hate, so all my more specific misanthropy is for them.
Edit: just to clarify, I'm conflating misanthropy with femcel, not feminism.
I spend most (but far from all) of my time on the computer, relate to many of the memes, sometimes lose entire days doomscrolling on tumblr and probably couldn't keep a job if I didn't work from home, often in pyjamas
This place is very unstrict about its definition and understanding of "femcel." It's far more about being a fail woman than being an actual female version of an incel. Incels are toxic af, and genuine femcel spaces are awful places for both how they keep people in a cycle of self hatred, and how they make you a worse person to everyone else. A big goal for me personally with this place is to provide an alternative that still satisfies most of the same needs.
Besides, if we truly gatekept people who were actual definitional femcels, we'd lose a lot of important users.
Oh, hell, we aren't beggining with this. When did I state this was serious and anyone that didn't fit the bingo must leave? The server's name says "memes", the posts here are jokes.
Well, aro ace doesn't mean no love and no sex inherently. It just means no romantic attraction and no sexual attraction.
Neither of those things mean not having loving relationships (or sex for other reasons). Of course, one or many can also be romantically or sexually repulsed and that would mean not wanting those things, it just depends.
AroAce is the lack of romantic and sexual attraction to others, it does not inherently mean not wanting those things, as aroace people may want them for other reasons.
Yes, but that doesn't mean no sex and no romance, as we keep having to explain. It's a lack of sexual and romantic attraction. This doesn't inherently mean asexual and aromantic people won't want sex or romance for other reasons.
I am allo, but my understanding so far is: there is a difference between having a need and it being directed towards somebody. All that *sexual stuff just tries to communicate who you wanna have sex with.
It also looks like there is an a- to pan- spectrum.
Also rather anectodal question: is it still involuntary if you ever turn down a sex offer?
Good try, however, that's not what aroace means. AroAce means a lack of romantic or sexual attraction towards others. This doesn't inherently mean not wanting romance or sex for other reasons.
Top right cell is difficult, I have no diagnosis, but that’s very possible. With that I would have a bingo. A bunch of them are up to interpretation. And there are a few values who I could change by buying/starting things
As a male i have 4 :/
MALE IN THE FEMCEL SERVER SPOTTED 😛😛😛😛😛
(run before the touch desesperate ones come)
revs free candy van
Whelp can't argue with kanna...
No more Rent, No more Work, only kanna. Best day ever!
oh no, I'm sending you to a US prison, so get ready for legalized slavery :3
US prisons are inhuman, so you wont be allowed to take me there muhahahahahahaha freedom
We have the 5th highest incarceration rate globally. If you're not from America, then things will be even worse for you, especially now
This escalated quickly
Well i made that Joke more than once, ever since i owned one: https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/359002f8-7297-45b5-8262-64bf73691b88.png
Yes officer, this one
It has a Bed.
Due to market specific problems Free Hugs are now 2€
That means you have to give each other 2€ before you hug? That only excludes people who don’t have 2€
Does this count?
A MALE WAS SPOTTED! GO, MY LOVE THIRSTY GIRLS!
🥺👉👈
THEY'RE HERE, RUN
Now I’m confused who’s running from whom
Thr man is giving excuses to not hug us! He is exiging money! We have to attack now!
Autschi. Cuddles to feel better?
Wait, you guys like boys? :P
Biromanticism sounds
So far I pretty much only cuddled with men. (Cuddling and holding hands on a friendship level should be really normalized.) The community doesn’t have any limitations regarding orientation.
I got 6, woo!
I got like 15/25 and a bingo, as a male
Should I be worried?
>////<
why would you put erectile disfunction along bpd?
THE IMAGE ISN'T MINE ｡°(°¯᷄◠¯᷅°)°｡
And the ED is for Eating Disorder, I think.
I thought it was emotional disorder
It DOES work, so I guess you can count as it too.
executive dysfunction
8/25, my wife will be disappointed at my femceliness
Only 11 and no bingos, time to get worse! ;)
My strict parents forbid me from dying my hair >:(
There will be plenty of time to get all the crazy you want later. What color screams your name currently?
You might want to consult your doctor or your local dealer if you hear colors
Hahahahaha, this made us laugh out loud.
I... honestly don't know. I have some identity troubles, really. I can't list my quality, the things I like, I don't know amything about myself, somehow.
🫂
Is there a color which looks interesting? Don’t think too much about it.
(I might paint my nails turquoise some day in a distant future. Just because that nail polish color peaked my interest more then others for unexplainable reasons)
I am sorry to hear that. But if you are stuck in a strict home where even your hair color is restricted. I don’t want arm chair to much but that often means that you don’t get a chance t explore and test who you are. Hugs and I hope you get to find yourself soon!
Yea, it's like that. All I know about me id my illnesses, my femcel state and my biromanticism. And all of those are set down by my parents.
got 12 as a male (if you replace reddit with lemmy)
edit: looks like that's the current male record. yippee!! ok I've lost the record 😞 ggs
Yea, I also replaced Reddit by Lemmy and Discord for Fluxer.
And yipeeeee!
How do you find servers to join for Fluxer? Or do you just use it with friends?
There's the compass icon, which shows you a server list. But I mostly used it with friends.
Though I don't use it anymore, so I can't really help you with a screenshot or a tutorial, sorry.
Ahh got it, thanks
4 I'm not a woman tho, so, mine is irrelevant
There's a lot of desirable traits in here :3
I WOULD be a MCYT or anything else YT, but I'm unable to develop any skills plus I'm literally being hunted by an entire Discord server and they recognize part of my face, my art style, have my address and my behavior, so... :)
There's always peertube and vtubing.
I still don't feel like being caught online by the people that hunt me around. VTuber softwares may fail, even for a few frames, and show my face and/or voice.
Is there not a way to set it up so that it can only show the vtuber and if it fails it shows nothing?
I don't think so, I don't know, I never tried. I have strict parents, they'd watch over all of my streams and if their super-religious minds find a single detail "satanic" they'd forbid me
Ah, we're sorry. We hope you can escape soon.
Yea, I hope too. I'm looking for a job since now so I can have some money to buy my own apartment as soon as possible.
You had me go search what those fancy words mean 😅 (mcyt). Having discord people hunt you down sounds scary af.
I counted now:
So there's hope out there for all of you girls, don't despair.
damn I'm like 4ish out of 25 (I'm only jealous of some women sometimes.)
I always knew I was a bit of an imposter on this comm due to being employed and having had sex, but I didn't know there was such an emphasis on prudishness. I thought this was the place where all the cool unstable hot bitches hung out. who's out here covering all their skin and wearing granny panties?
I don't think it's prudishness, I think it's more like embarrassment and comfort. At least, comfort is my guess for the granny panties part. I don't wear those.
I do cover up a lot as a way to hide my body. It helps to alleviate dysphoria. And I get the impression that there are a lot of other transfems here as well. Maybe there are cis girls here that cover up because they are unhappy with their appearance as well.
oh damn you're so right, I hadn't considered like the pre or mid transition transfemmes. All the girlies I know have transitioned, and they're all very happy with their bodies now and like to show them off.
I might be projecting a bit but I'm going to hazzard a guess that a lot of us here probably also have self harm scars we prefer not to show.
And actually this is most of a "place where the cool unstable bitches who society hates due to their instability" hang out
Me! ;)
That one I could’ve ticked, but it said other women.
And hiding ones body is about insecurities I guess. It also can be really hot in summer
I'm only 11ish/25; time to retire 😔
it’s like in preschool, where some grown ups have to pay attention so the whole place doesn’t fall into disarray
my goat washed
How are we defining 'extreme feminist' here?
I'm at 13 otherwise, mainly as I'm not into the same video games or social/media.
I hope it's not talking about RadFems. Like, the TERF/SWERF types. I don't like those and don't really consider them to be feminists at all. If it means being strongly committed to feminism, though, then I'm in.
Yeah, I'm with you on this.
Like my general misanthropy and lack of desire to socialise is all inclusive and I'm basically everything the terfs, swerfs and faschy folk hate, so all my more specific misanthropy is for them.
Edit: just to clarify, I'm conflating misanthropy with femcel, not feminism.
As in male hater and twitter minor-causes lawyer.
Somewhere between 10 and 15. There are a few that are iffy and I don't feel like quibbling, I feel like midnight salsa.
Wait fuck I'm out of the spicy stuff. Salsa run tomorrow!
10
:3
what's mcyt?
MineCraft YouTuber
Thanks!
which ED exactly?
10 (8-12 I’m not really sure)
With this design incels can get a bingo
Also why does it say discord and reddit?
EDs in general. Though most femcels I knew had anorexia.
Yes, there is an incel bingo somewhere.
I know the reason for discord, but not for reddit. This isn't even mine, I just found it at image search and thought it'd be cool to post here.
So...
Eating Disorder. What I meant with "in general" was either anorexia or bulmia or... you got my point.
emotional dysregulation does fit the other two options better
Maybe it's both.
executive dysfunction
Only 11 and not even a bingo. Sad days
It's hard to say on some of these things, but 12 was the count that I got.
5 / 25, among which is autism and no makeup (which is really really important)
I don't tick enough boxes but the extent of my psychological issues is so great the BPD box may as well take up the entire board 💀
How many did you check?
Only 7 but that's ignoring the chaos of the 24+ headmates in the system lmfao
8/25 Didn't even get a bingo. If only I didn't leave the house to go rollerblading with my rollerblading club
how does an aroace femcel work
I spend most (but far from all) of my time on the computer, relate to many of the memes, sometimes lose entire days doomscrolling on tumblr and probably couldn't keep a job if I didn't work from home, often in pyjamas
I think this.... isn't a femcel's definition.
This place is very unstrict about its definition and understanding of "femcel." It's far more about being a fail woman than being an actual female version of an incel. Incels are toxic af, and genuine femcel spaces are awful places for both how they keep people in a cycle of self hatred, and how they make you a worse person to everyone else. A big goal for me personally with this place is to provide an alternative that still satisfies most of the same needs.
Besides, if we truly gatekept people who were actual definitional femcels, we'd lose a lot of important users.
Oh, hell, we aren't beggining with this. When did I state this was serious and anyone that didn't fit the bingo must leave? The server's name says "memes", the posts here are jokes.
You came across as serious. If you intended not to then you could have used tone tags.
We think we are correct in saying that your tone read as very hostile and gatekeepy to most readers here.
Cool, Guess I'm just here for the memes then
Got it.
Well, aro ace doesn't mean no love and no sex inherently. It just means no romantic attraction and no sexual attraction.
Neither of those things mean not having loving relationships (or sex for other reasons). Of course, one or many can also be romantically or sexually repulsed and that would mean not wanting those things, it just depends.
If aroaces don't want love nor sex, but a femcel is someone who want those. These titles are rather clashing, don't you think?
You can be unbearably horny and sex craved. While also not wanting actual sex or romance or other people.
Horny aroace is very much a thing.
AroAce is the lack of romantic and sexual attraction to others, it does not inherently mean not wanting those things, as aroace people may want them for other reasons.
...What the fuck is the concept of aroace then? Wasn't it assexual + aromantic?
Yes, but that doesn't mean no sex and no romance, as we keep having to explain. It's a lack of sexual and romantic attraction. This doesn't inherently mean asexual and aromantic people won't want sex or romance for other reasons.
I am allo, but my understanding so far is: there is a difference between having a need and it being directed towards somebody. All that *sexual stuff just tries to communicate who you wanna have sex with.
It also looks like there is an a- to pan- spectrum.
Also rather anectodal question: is it still involuntary if you ever turn down a sex offer?
Good try, however, that's not what aroace means. AroAce means a lack of romantic or sexual attraction towards others. This doesn't inherently mean not wanting romance or sex for other reasons.
Well, no, because love is not the same as romance. Aros can still love and be loved, just not want romance.
If they don't want romance or sex, perhaps. But that's down to each individual aro- and/or ace- spec person. It's not a given.
The definitions only say romance.
[Confused] Definitions of what?
Definition of a femcel.
14/25, almost but sadly no bingo :(
Damn, no one here bingoes the entire thing.
Top right cell is difficult, I have no diagnosis, but that’s very possible. With that I would have a bingo. A bunch of them are up to interpretation. And there are a few values who I could change by buying/starting things
We got: 4/25
Hm well 3
feeling pretty good about my 12/25 among these comments (if you swap "as a woman" for "as a trans man")
ladies. 😏
I got only 6. Does that mean I have to leave now?
Naah, you just gotta stay a bit more to evolve
7/25 but i m a man do yiu accept me here🥹🥹💖💖
Only 5.... I'm sorry
4/25 as a man