AITAH for not caring that my (24M) co-worker (24F) very harshly rejected our other co-worker (23M)?
We work at Sonic, and my co-worker (23M) has a huge crush on our female co-worker (24F). Now, firstly, I don’t think co-workers should date each other. I don’t even think co-workers should be friends—there should be a strict professional line, and I try to keep that.
But our female co-worker (24F) only dates and likes older men—like men who are 10, 15, 20, or even 22 years older. She’s single right now, but our co-worker kept trying to ask her out. She got frustrated and called him ugly and annoying, and told him she doesn’t like guys her age, and that she finds him repulsive and disgusting, which hurt his feelings.
Now, me personally, I don’t care. It’s pretty obvious she only dates and likes much older men—she said this to me and him multiple times—but he kept trying to shoot his shot. At a certain point, cruelty and harshness are the only things some people will understand, so I don’t feel sympathy for him. AITAH?
But you do. You have posted many times with this account and your grimreaper alt account that you don't like age gaps.
You are an asshole. But not because you don't care in this matter. You are one for so many other reasons and a quick glance of your post history shows it.
Sometimes they post defending age gaps though, which is confusing
Makes you wonder if OP is the 23 year old "coworker" in this situation.
In German we say, "Wer nicht hören kann, muss fühlen" (those who can't hear, must feel (usually used when someone injures themselves or gets beat after ignoring advice)).
Nah, NTAH.