Heh. My partner is transitioning right now, and I'm bisexual, so it's kinda best of both worlds. Definitely put yourself out there. There are people who will delight you in ways you can't imagine yet.
Well, they had come out as non binary before realising they are more transmasc, so I had practice... basically though I had absolutely no problem with it. They are still who they were, just more comfortable with themselves.
The only thing I'm having to consciously adjust to is their newfound interest in butt stuff. 😄
I’m not part of this community, and the trans aspect isn’t my focus. What matters is the principle: time is limited, so don’t wait for a “better time.” Improve what you can, speak up when needed, and tackle your issues—whether it’s relationships, career, or personal growth.
Test the waters and plan your steps, but keep moving forward. Don’t fixate on the end goal as your only source of happiness. Enjoy the journey, adapt as things change, and address what feels wrong or missing. Progress is about both the destination and the ride.
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Heh. My partner is transitioning right now, and I'm bisexual, so it's kinda best of both worlds. Definitely put yourself out there. There are people who will delight you in ways you can't imagine yet.
How did you take it when they came out?
Well, they had come out as non binary before realising they are more transmasc, so I had practice... basically though I had absolutely no problem with it. They are still who they were, just more comfortable with themselves.
The only thing I'm having to consciously adjust to is their newfound interest in butt stuff. 😄
I’m not part of this community, and the trans aspect isn’t my focus. What matters is the principle: time is limited, so don’t wait for a “better time.” Improve what you can, speak up when needed, and tackle your issues—whether it’s relationships, career, or personal growth.
Test the waters and plan your steps, but keep moving forward. Don’t fixate on the end goal as your only source of happiness. Enjoy the journey, adapt as things change, and address what feels wrong or missing. Progress is about both the destination and the ride.
Whether or not you meant to, you addressed the trans of it pretty well, actually.
The best time to plant a tree was 30 years ago, the second best time is now.
Very good advice for everyone. Sometimes you’ve just got to woman up and give it a go.
Thanks, this comic really resonated with me, but being a straight cis-gendered guy, I hesitated to make a top-level comment.
Saving this comment- actually heck it, I need this printed and stapled above my bed
Could be worse. You could have softlocked your game with marriage and kids. 😬
Makes me want to cry
lol same :3
T4T is magic. Just saying.
I've always been of the opinion that bi+ people and trans people are often a good match, tbh
If I die... I won't tell anyone if you don't... :3
but have you considered: gay?
Yay for gay! ☺️
2 years on hormones and I started dating my now wife. It's possible.