Spyke
sh.itjust.works

I feel a little bad for it, but like Im also looking at billboards, shop windows, my own reflection in cars, cats running across the road, cool looking bikes going past, odd shaped dog turds, the writing on the back of the guys shirt in front of me.

I dont have the mental fortitude to keep my eyes locked at exactly 12 o clock all the time I'm existing.

I kinda resent being made to feel bad for it.

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lemmy.world

Look, people showing cleavage are aware it's going to draw attention. In the same way women know if they put words on their tits you're going to read them. There's a difference between noticing something and staring right at it

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Ebberreply
lemmings.world

A couple of days ago I saw a woman with a fishnet shirt with a bright yellow piece covering the chest, saying "Caution!"

I think it's genius

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I had a dream I went to a thrift store and saw a miniskirt made out of that reflective fabric used for construction sites.
I was so pissed when I woke up

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Don't feel bad about it. Just don't sit there slack-jawed and staring. Anyone who tries to make you feel bad about it is just too chronically online for their own good.

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sh.itjust.works

If I was less lazy I'd make an opposite picture where the cleavage is blasting men's eyes with a laser.

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Almost like in Austin Powers:

(P.S.: Just saw that it was 1997 like FPS Redneck Rampage, which also had a "teat gun". Now I'm curious if that was coincidence.)

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pythonreply
lemmy.world

Nothing wrong with a polite glance, just don't make it awkward

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Yes. I work in a place that has dozens of gorgeous women come in every day. It's incredibly easy to not harass, stare, or generally be a creep. But there's nothing wrong with having a glance at someone who looks amazing.

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lemmy.world

I mean as a gay man I'm constantly checking out like 5 different areas of men constantly. Sorry I'm horny? I'm not making it obvious or them uncomfortable.

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lemmy.world

Ass, crotch, thighs, chest and arms. Eyes are a bonus. Pretty much everything about men just revs my engine.

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whoisearthreply
lemmy.ca

Ass, dick, chest, shoulders, forearms?

Just a guess I'm a straight dude I have no fucking clue

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lemmy.world

Forearms is a good one. Also I love a man with good hands. A little rough is nice.

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I mean I don't hate on soft hands. If anything, that tells me you take care of your skin

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socsareply
piefed.social

Left thumb, upper ankle, clavicle, ears, appendix

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This was a hard question to answer for some reason. Probably because I'm into most types of guys. I like guys that are confident in themselves without trying too hard. You can tell when a man loves his body because it will show in his personality, mannerisms, and antics.

I love a big belly or a six-pack, but I lean more to the dad bod type. I love big arms and pecs, but it's not a requirement. That valley between the pecs and the stomach is somewhere I hope to take long naps. I could just curl up on a man's chest and just sleep for ages.

Love a man with thick thighs and calves. I'm a runner so I love when those calves are fucking rock hard.

Honestly, dick size isn't so important to me much. I can have fun with any size. Mostly, I want that dad bod or some pecs to suckle on.

Lastly, hair. I love a hairy man. Beards drive me insane. However, a man with a big belly but totally hairless is kinda hot.

I got really shallow in this post, but I'm okay with that. I like guys that are bigger than me physically, but twunks also get my heart pounding.

Oh shit, I almost forgot my favorite part. A huge badonkadunk. Love a man with an ass bigger than my head lol.

Wow, now I'm horny. I need to go take care of some things. BRB

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Linearityreply
infosec.pub

I think the joke is about staring at them, not shooting them with a deadly laser

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Levreply
europe.pub

He was probably referring to the misogyny in the title

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lemmy.blahaj.zone

there’s a big difference between being attracted to women and staring at their boobs

lesbians can manage one without the other just fine, why can’t you?

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They are not totally wrong. But not totally right either.

What we perceive as sexual and how we react to it has strong cultural and social influences, of course there is also the baseline biology.

There was a time when women's legs were "tobooed", since being considered as highly sexual and delibaretly hidden.
Nowadays it's no issue at all if women wear clothes that reveal their legs accross all occasions.

So there is some form of habit to it. If we are used to seeing naked body parts in non-sexual contexts, then we will see similar normalization in this regard as with legs or other body parts and areas.

We might benefit from normalizing this. Among other effects, this could help to counter many legal and social issues people have with revealed body parts between genders.

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Stare.

But fellows do not mosey around finding ways to cleverly expose their shafts unless you give them your cell number, and that makes it okay.

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this aired in 2002

so it's not like media hasn't been both calling out, taking advantage of, and making fun of male gaze

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lemmy.world

Isn't she Kara, AKA Supergirl...?

They are cousins... That makes it weirder.

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RedStampreply
piefed.social

Nope, she's Power Girl. While still Superman's cousin, in this specific continuity (injustice), she's from an alternate timeline. So it's like half incest

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A clone of his cousin, then.

We should toss superboy in there, get Superman's/luthors clone involved.

Call it half of a half incest.

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I think she's a cousin of a Superman from another universe so technically it's cool.

Unless it's different in the Injustice setting...

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lemmy.world

If only there was a way to prevent people from looking at your cleavage...

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lemmy.zip

I actually dont know what you mean lol. Reduction surgery? Full burka???

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SippyCupreply
feddit.nl

Yeah it's called Look Up.

Are you looking at cleavage? Stop it. Look up.

I like boobies too but dude take some personal responsibility. Let people live their lives

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Exactly. Why wear provocative clothes and make a bug fuss about men staring at you. Fuckin' women with their stupid logic.

At least here in Poland, I don't see women complaining about this shit, nor do they really care if you check them out. It's probably just a western culture thing.

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