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Gatekeeping the Infuriating

It goes without saying, One thing that annoys me is whenever a topic comes up about someone finding something mildly infuriating and there is always that 1 person who has to decide it isn't because of x, y and z reasons

Like I guarantee, if I were to do the same it'd be on every post with tiles that were out of order, upside down because it's one of the few things I look at and shrug because it's whatever... but I'm not about to do that. People are allowed to be infuriated by things that don't necessarily infuriate you.

Any kind of Gatekeeping in general.... very infuriating.

Anyway see this post as an open invitation to vent. Comment below. What infuriates you? and what thing that typically infuriates others, doesn't infuriate you.

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discuss.tchncs.de

This post infuriates me. We shouldn't need to explain that we're different people, but here we are.

Sadly, the things that annoy me are things like the messes I leave for future me. Past me is a lazy asshole.

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I also infuriate me.

When I’m doing any type of DIY and finish using a tool for the moment it goes on the floor or table closest to me and I can never find the bloody thing when I next need it.

If I apply some discipline and designate an area for tools then things do go much more smoothly.

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Aerreply
lemmy.world

this in the form of my file naming scheme. I know it fucks me over later. Yet I still do it

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Facebonesreply
reddthat.com

Then you finally find it, think "I should rename this from "Stupid_Long_Default_FileName_2023-04-25_A_Long_Long_Time_Ago_In_A_Galaxy_Far.away to something recognizable".......

But you don't.

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Aerreply
lemmy.world

Asfasdasaad.png image1.png image2.png asdfad.txt asdfasww.txt changename.psd

New_text_document.txt New_text_documentsfs.txt

This a scatter shot. Might have personally attacked everyone with this lol

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lemmy.world

It's okay though, you can just clean it up by putting them in "New Folder (3)" and moving it to your other hard drive that you swear you'll sort through one of these days months years. The creation/modification date should be enough information to clue you in on what's inside without opening the file and looking, right?

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Then cursing yourself. You've put it in your hard drive somewhere... You'd hope it was in my documents but because you were half way through another project at the time it is highly likely it was within that other project you were working on and you can't remember what that is

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Aerreply
lemmy.world

I don't actively discourage people from posting because I don't find their opinion is good enough to post

Like do you want me to just not moderate so people post porn and racist shit? Because I could just not and that is what you're going to get

I am talking about the kind of commenters who actively go out of their way to put an OP down deciding that somebody can't post their opinion of something because it isn't infuriating enough

The point is everyone has different thresholds of what one person finds infuriating, I expressed what doesn't infuriate me but I haven't actively gone a crusade to remove posts because I don't personally find them infuriating

The modlog is fully transparent you can see for yourself what content is removed and why

I suppose you just don't want people to moderate? I do this as a volunteer because nobody else wants too. As it turns out few people really want the responsibility of doing this shit, it's thankless and not for everyone

The amount of false reports I see for things that aren't a criteria to be removed people just do it because they don't like what was said

Those silently responding are doing exactly what I said I find infuriating, because something doesn't infuriate them rather than just move on and find another post they are actively down voting, creating a hostile environment for people who want to join the community but haven't yet because of how hostile it can be, it's elitest behaviour and not constructive

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