Spyke
lemmy.world

So... We're all just not gonna talk about the fact that 'Root' is apparently a traditional girl's name now, huh?

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Root probably comes from Ruth, which is for sure a traditional girl's name

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Possible side effects: new calves.

Size is genetic so sign me up

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lemmy.world

Reminds me of an idiot on FB asking why men's rooms don't have changing stations. "Why don't they, huh?! Ever thought about that?!"

Then a friend of hers told her that almost all do have diaper stations. Then she really got dog piled.

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rockSlayerreply
lemmy.world

Tbf there was a point not too long ago where most men's rooms didn't have a diaper station

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PugJesusreply
lemmy.world

Suppose it must be regional. Back when I was a kid, 20 long years ago, men's rooms having a diaper station was the norm.

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It's probably regional, 20 years ago is when it started changing for my area

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Yeah, that is definitely a newer development. I'd bet the vast majority of men's rooms that have them didn't get them at the same time as the women's rooms, unless the building itself is fairly new construction.

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Even with my youngest (5), I would always use the bathroom early and check to see if they had a changing station prior to him potentially pooping himself. The majority of the time there was, but the times there wasn't was often enough to make it worth checking. Only if my wife was with us, though, otherwise it was a roll of the dice.

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shalafireply
lemmy.world

She posted that 25 years ago, and stations were plenty common in our town (Tulsa).

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Fair, we didn't start seeing them as common until about 20 years ago in my area

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Kusimulkkureply
lemm.ee

Not so long ago there weren't as many men changing the diapers either

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rockSlayerreply
lemmy.world

It didn't help that the problem was enforced publicly by companies though.

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I feel like companies are often just catering to the public sentiment and it wasn't publicly popular so they're just reinforcing it rather than enforcing

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sh.itjust.works

I've been known to go into the women's room to change a diaper when the men's room doesn't have a changing table. It doesn't happen often, but it's supremely irritating to me as a dad.

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psivchazreply
reddthat.com

One time I was at a restaurant and I noted that it didn't have a changing station. Sure enough, during the meal my kid needed to be changed. I asked my wife if her restroom had a changing station, and she told me it did.

So I took my kid up to the host stand and asked to talk to the manager. I politely explained that I needed to change a diaper but there wasn't a changing station in the restroom so asked which table I could use, or if I should just use the bench in the waiting area. Manager got flustered and had a waitress check if the women's room was empty and then stood outside the door while I changed the diaper.

About a year later I happened to go back, and I did notice that the men's room had a changing table. It's a small thing, but I felt like I won one.

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sh.itjust.works

Are you insinuating that I'm a baby because I believe that mothers and fathers both deserve the same level of accomodation in regards to caring for their children in public spaces? I sure hope that's not what you're insinuating, because that would make you a cunt. You don't want to be a cunt, do you?

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lemmy.world

It depends where you live. But it does majorly suck when you end up needing to change your kid in a place that doesn't have it in the men's bathroom (I'm a dude). Hell, it happened to me over the holidays when I went out with extended family that was visiting to a nice restaurant. I was changing my daughter's dirty diaper on the stupid little countertop area in the bathroom that had all the concierge type amenities. I just pushed all that crap into the corner to make room and one of the staff came in and gave me a look and I just commented they should install a proper changing station in the men's bathroom in the future.

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Benignreply
fedia.io

In northern Europe they are always in the HC bathrooms. I'v never seen one inside a gendered bathroom.

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Is HC just a unisex/family bathroom or something? Those are somewhat common here in the US, but not common enough to be reliably present at commercial facilities. They're mostly common in publicly funded buildings and/or kid oriented businesses.

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We often don't have handicapped bathrooms, but a handicap stall in the gendered bathrooms.

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lemmy.world

I love a bit of Bull Yogurt to garnish my Rocky Mountain Oysters.

Edit: would be fun if a restaurant serving Rocky Mountain Oysters would provide the names of the bulls that provided for my meal.

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feddit.nu

This is just bullshit. There's no way they'll keep milk from different cows separate just to be able to label the bottles

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TBF, if it's a small farm, they could easily list all the cows for a certain batch of product.

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I’m thinking you’re missing the point of this post….

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I hear Zuckerberg is starting a company selling yogurt from bulls. He personally tastes each sample to ensure their quality.

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feddit.nl

consuming animals

Does "Dumb Bitch" think yogurt is literally made out of cows...?

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lemmy.world

There's something here, but in a very broad and nuanced way. A society (capitalist society like this one) that tends to value things by their ability to produce profits does lend itself to misogyny the same way it lends itself to classism and natalism, in a lot of parallel ways.

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Good effort but Lemmy is all about superficial progressivism. If you even so much as approach any kind of nuance or try to make them see their internalized sexism, they lose their shit.

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