Spyke

Rule of thumb:

  • are you making fun or otherwise mocking someone?
  • are you doing it for any "bad reason" whatsoever?
  • are you doing something that is/was primarily done by others for "bad reasons", historically?
  • are you doing something that other groups started doing as a replacement for something else that they were not allowed to (that you are)?

I'm half asleep so I may have forgotten something but if I didn't, then answering No to all of those should be the minimum thing you do.

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fedia.io

It’s called gender-bending, at least in my local cosplay groups. It’s done frequently and usually turns out great because of the passion and care put into it. Go for it!

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I've also heard it referred to as cross-play, though without the contact of cosplay, can be somewhat confusing.

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scarabicreply
lemmy.world

This is a subtle question, so feel free to answer “none of the above.”

But in your circles, is this gender bending explicit, as in “I’m a female Wolverine” or is it just someone who’s female going as Wolverine? And in the latter case, I don’t mean that she’s pretending to be a man, just that she’s not changing the character, simply embodying it as, herself, a woman.

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It’s just about playing the character as the persons’ own gender identity. Most common, of course, being video game characters as opposite genders. So like, lady master chief or what if zelda was a man, etc. But I’ve seen an androgynous/enby kratos that was super well done! Gender-bent / gender-bending is just the term that has stuck for that.

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feddit.nl

With all the Bowsettes last year, I'm tempted to say no in the name of equality.

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Not sure honestly. It may have been the year before. Or even earlier. Or maybe I'm just slow at noticing popular media trends. As you can see, I'm doing great at growing old.

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People love the genderbending of characters. Go nuts.

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leminal.space

It's called "genderful appropriation". I just invented it. All the cool people will be getting offended by it really soon.

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Hugh_Jeggsreply
lemm.ee

I'm not cool and I'm fucking furious you excluded me

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But more importantly, I'm furious that infinite excluded hugh

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A boy at my kids preschool wanted to be Anna from Frozen. His parents dressed him as Anna. I don’t think they went out of their way to feminize him - he had no wig or makeup, for example. But he was in a dress, because that’s what Anna wears. Was he a “male version of Anna?” No. Was he going as a female? No. He was just the character. Similarly, if a little girl puts on an iron man suit, is she a “female iron man” or some kind of “Iron Woman?” No.

So when you say “a male version of a character” I hear that you are not just going as a character who happens to be the other gender but you are putting a specific twist on that character. There’s nothing wrong with that necessarily. But it can definitely go wrong depending on the character and how you handle it. We’d just need more information. It’s one of those things that doesn’t have bright line rules. Like all issues of content offensiveness.

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lemmy.world

I can't see a problem with fictional characters. It's when you bring in the real people that the drama starts. Trans JK Rowling, KaMANla Harris, Hillbilly Eilish, and Marjory Taylor Peen all seem like they would raise a few eyebrows.

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Lauchsreply
lemmy.world

Ha, never heard or thought of trans Rowling but if I knew Harry Potter better I'd be damned tempted.

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I'm just having a hard time imagining a scenario in which it would be offensive...

Plenty where it would be a little confusing. Sandra Dude O'Connor, or Susan Bro Anthony would take some explaining, at the least.

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I personally think all gender flip characters are dumb, in either direction, personally. But here's the thing; it doesn't matter what I think. Do whatever the hell you want.

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I dont think so, nor do I care. Black people dress up as white characters all the time, I consider it the same. Dressing up as a character means that character means something to you, so I dont see where anyone should be offended by it.

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lemmy.world

In case someone reading had a similar question but about race. Why do you care, do people of different races bother you?

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lemmy.world

I love it when I say what I think and people don't have a real response so they just call me a troll, lol.

That's fine, block me so I don't have to deal with you anymore, I'm cool with that.

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lemmy.world

On the very unlikely chance you're being genuine, which I don't think you are, there's a great quote you should consider.

"If you meet one asshole, then they're an asshole. If everyone you meet is an asshole, you're the asshole."

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lemmy.world

Not everyone I meet treats me the way people on Lemmy treat me. I am told I am a kind person and most people, while apathetic, are not so rude as Lemmy users. It's a great quote, but ultimately not applicable to this particular situation. Have a good day, or not, make of it however you will.

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