doing things helps

you can downvote me all you want, check my profile. i draw cats. the only reason i can say that is cuz i do. even if theyre shit.

well you certainly were able to respond. and i mean it. doing things is the only way to feel like you can do things. Even if you do them shittyly or badly, doing them is the only way your brain will learn it can do it.

Else, it learns it's helpless and useless.

Brev, humans are bacterial colonies with an ego.

Brother, not knowing how to cook is something you can change!

Start by applying an egg to a pan. Competence is built with practice.

If you need recipes or guidance I can help you :).

Thank you! Discussing ideas is amazing, even with people who disagree with you.

It can help both sides learn so much and acquire perspective.

What people think debates are is shaped a lot by how youtube and politicians portray them (and of course, in that format, it's a fallacy free-for-all).

There's plenty of people on this post acting like a stinky man is unfit.

Suffice to say this is false.

There are plenty of things to criticize in a man. Their stank is not one of the ones that matter to me.

What matters to me:

Are they a misogynist? Are they racist? Are they hateful? Are they classist? Are they kind? Are they empathic? Are they able to cook? Do they clean the dishes when they use them?

Of everything the manosphere is promoting, this is the most mundane and harmless shit ever.

When they promote> Misogyny, doing crack, heck doing a shetload of drugs, narcissism, hitting your face with a hammer, nihilism

no showers.. is.. .. so benign by comparison. jeez

Let men be monkeys please, and try not to push them into a corner about stupid harmless shet. If you're going to corner monke, do so for something worth fighting a cornered animal for.

whoops, words are more honest than people

Really?

I have never smelt a cologne that masked the misogyny in an imbecile, nor have I smelt a fart that made me take distance from a good person.

Anybody can be a dipshit. It's important to know that anybody includes us too.

It's mad-libs kinda shit.

The rolls die head, of.. rolls die the pope is rolls die a BIG rolls die muslim rolls die conclave!

The big problem is discerning when you're playing chess against a pigeon, and when you're acting like the pigeon yourself. "I would never" - a pigeon

They laugh with us. That means we laugh too. Should give it a try.

Then you can cook.

And that about sharing with others.. I understand, however from experience, there's others who will enjoy the fact that you cooked for them, and there's others who will pick at the recipe.

I know what others i prefer.