She's trying her best

The end game is to become perfectly adapted to their environment, at which point changes may slow way down, like with sharks or cockroaches. If new niches open up (like a local species going extinct), existing species will fill the gap and adapt to it, becoming new species over time, eventually competing with everyone else like usual.

I guess the ultimate ultimate goal is to expand across the galaxy and eventually escape the death of the universe, but in the short term, its being well adapted to the local environment.

Sorry about whatever happened in your life that led to.... all this