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I fantasize about being with a trans woman, but I'm straight and not sure I actually want to. Anyone feel the same and gone through with it?

I too fantasized about being with a trans woman. I hooked up with one and I loved it. Later I figured out I'm trans myself. I still fantasize about being with trans women, but now it's gayer. I would say don't worry about it too much. Just treat trans women like any other woman, like an autonomous person with their own wants, needs, desires, and traumas (just maybe some more traumas than average). As with any other relationship, when in doubt, ask.

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Do you find genitals attractive?

I find the closer you zoom in the less sexually apealing genitals are, so yeah those extreme closeups in porn where all you can see is their junk turns me off. That said I find both penises and vaginas sexually attractive, so a more attractive set of genitals makes me more attracted to them, just like more attractive boobs or legs or eyes or asses would. Genitals look best when they are accompanied by the rest of the person, especially their face.

I personally prefer shaven. I've never really been a fan of hair in general, probably due to me growing up in a house with 3 women with long hair and finding it balled up in the most disgusting places. I find a hairless set of genitals to feel so much cleaner and enjoyable to touch. I feel like I can connect with my partner so much better without any hair in the way.