I'm slowly learning to be less hard on myself about it. My friends tell me I sabotage myself by trying too hard due to some not great beliefs about myself (that each "failure" in dating then serves to reinforce) so I'm trying to take their advice, scale that back, and just focus on making new friends for now. I'll have to see how it goes for my mental health and I'm turn ability to not self sabotage over time but it feels like a better approach than my previous obsessively browsing 5 different apps for hours a day desperate for a match at least
I'm just shelving online dating entirely for now. In months of obsessive swiping, it didn't really go anywhere and overall just made me feel worse. At the very least meeting and making friends in person will have positives that online dating or online friending don't have because dating apps are honestly kind of toxic to actually meeting people even if trying to do it for friends. I just didn't know what else to try because I didn't know how else to meet people but I found some options now.
Sounds like you're on a good path. Good luck to you!
For me just enjoying my hobbies did the trick. You get to know a lot of like minded people that way. Not necessarily dating partners, but thats also the point.
There is 8 billion people in the world it can take some time to sift through the rough ones to find and connect with a good one. Keep your chin up or you might miss her walking by :)
A mutually destructive long-term relationship with an aggressively sadistic transwoman who keeps me tied up when I sleep and rapes me multiple times per day, and neither of us have any limits or inhibitions to prevent one from molesting the other at any time, but she dishes out discipline when she deems I deserve it, and the fruits of our love are watered with tears.
I don't know if it's my #1 fantasy I'd list here but I'm similar. I'd want to be in my SO's ass while the guy is in her vagina. The idea is hot either way though. Good one.
A happy, longterm relationship
Being a homeowner
Slut
Threesome with two women. The pumpkin spice of sexual fantasies.
There two things that I leave two disappointed people after and that’s dinner with my parents and threesomes.
That is the dream, mff or fmf?
What is the difference?
Mff has women performing acts on each other, fmf is just straight sex
I had no idea! MFF then.
I'll have what op is having!
Same. Specifically I want one eating my ass and one sucking my cock, and I want to be sucked dry like that.
Having a girlfriend 😔 attempts at dating haven't gone well
Dating is hard, so you don't have to be hard on yourself.
For me, expectations were mostly standing in my way to have a healthy dating live, so make of that what you will ^^
I'm slowly learning to be less hard on myself about it. My friends tell me I sabotage myself by trying too hard due to some not great beliefs about myself (that each "failure" in dating then serves to reinforce) so I'm trying to take their advice, scale that back, and just focus on making new friends for now. I'll have to see how it goes for my mental health and I'm turn ability to not self sabotage over time but it feels like a better approach than my previous obsessively browsing 5 different apps for hours a day desperate for a match at least
try and go into on line dating as trying to make a friend. that way you develop some rapport initially.
I'm just shelving online dating entirely for now. In months of obsessive swiping, it didn't really go anywhere and overall just made me feel worse. At the very least meeting and making friends in person will have positives that online dating or online friending don't have because dating apps are honestly kind of toxic to actually meeting people even if trying to do it for friends. I just didn't know what else to try because I didn't know how else to meet people but I found some options now.
Sounds like you're on a good path. Good luck to you!
For me just enjoying my hobbies did the trick. You get to know a lot of like minded people that way. Not necessarily dating partners, but thats also the point.
agree. skip that manipulative bullshit
There is 8 billion people in the world it can take some time to sift through the rough ones to find and connect with a good one. Keep your chin up or you might miss her walking by :)
A mutually destructive long-term relationship with an aggressively sadistic transwoman who keeps me tied up when I sleep and rapes me multiple times per day, and neither of us have any limits or inhibitions to prevent one from molesting the other at any time, but she dishes out discipline when she deems I deserve it, and the fruits of our love are watered with tears.
I'll um... Have what they're having.
Eeehh wut?
You heard me. Masochist here
Based
A MFM threesome.
Do it! This is one of the things I am glad to have experienced. So much to feel.
I definitely will!! Just need to find a couple of volunteers.
I don't know if it's my #1 fantasy I'd list here but I'm similar. I'd want to be in my SO's ass while the guy is in her vagina. The idea is hot either way though. Good one.
Definitely a threesome. Not even picky about genders, just seems like it'd be really fun.
Maybe someday.
I’m pretty sure you could get a threesome real quick if you asked. Love the piercings btw 😉
Someone did their homework
Haha i recognized her username. Her posts have induced erections at work before
Would love to assist 😈
Me too! Any gender.
The top of a woman's foot slamming flush against my balls.