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conflicted about my coworkers' overpunctuality

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Everyone wins!

no, I'm afraid you don't understand. Yours is what a rational solution looks like, the ones in charge of the unit don't want this, they want to control at what time I enter the unit.

If you have 2 older coworkers on a power trip looking for any excuse to explode on you for any perceived slight they are going to use this as ammunition.

It's though a superb idea and I'll be using my phone to record those first minutes and be ready to be ridiculed for it.

I need to quit.

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should I go back to my old job now that several people, some of them more knowledgeable than me have told me they don't understand my decision to quit it?

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it’s quite clear to me that me prioritizing my personal life over work made them insecure about themselves. Not listening to their forced, unasked and unwanted advice made them insecure about themselves. Working in a way that made sense to myself made them insecure about themselves.

When someone defies another person’s personal truth or reality, that has the potential to cause the other person to feel insecure about themselves.

With those people, I end up giving them short and vague responses until they leave me alone. They don’t deserve anything more.

holy shit, leaving was the correct decision. I always felt I didn't fit in because they expected me to be one of them, always subordinate to them, a useful idiot who would only work as they wanted.

I'm also glad I left. godspeed!

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how do you survive lazy coworkers?

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work is important to me because I like having a roof, food and healthcare. I don't have the luxury of not having to work.

Are you saying that work is a place to dump your issues or what you did on the weekend to the point of not doing your job? This is something I find very odd. I don't want to work with people with this mindset.

Are you advising me to ignore patients when they call? cause that's what they do and if a job is simply inconsequential, why bother?

Are you also advising me to listen to them when they rant against greens (an ecologist party in Germany) or migrants? It's tiring and closeted racist.

I don't see how my work ethic is the wrong one, or how yours would be better. Better if I want to become a careerist? absolutely. Better if I want to feel good with myself? absolutely not.

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was ist wichtig zu beachten, wenn man sich 4 bis 8 Wochen krank meldet?

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Nach 6 Wochen AU (pro Jahr, wenn Du dieses Jahr schon AU warst also auch eher) kommst Du in die Krankengeldzahlung der Krankenkasse.

Hilfe bitte: Im Jahr war ich schon auf anderen Gründen krank, aber nur 3 Tage. Du meinst, diese Tage werden auch gerechnet für die 6 Wochen Grenze. Ist dies korrekt?

Wenn man Krankengeld bekommt, muss man für dieses Jahr eine Lohnsteuererklärung abgeben.

Ich muss jedes Jahr eine Lohnsteuererklärung abgeben, die bekomme ich vom Arbeitgeber und das Finanzamt schickt mir kleine Korrekturen / Zuzahlungen, die ich abzahlen muss. Meinst Du, ich muss eine zweite Lohnsteuererklärung abgeben?

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Über Arbeitszeugnisse und Empfehlungsschreiben während der Bewerbung

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ich wollte meine Bewerbung nicht unter die große Glocke hängen und war bisher diskret. Wenn ich zur Leitung gehe zum sagen, dass ich ein Arbeitszeugnis brauche, wird es kein Geheimnis mehr sein.

Wo ich herkomme gibt es keine Arbeitszeugnisse, wo ich herkomme, Leiter, die sich beleidigt fühlen, sabotieren den Arbeitnehmer, der woanders arbeiten geht (den neuen Chef anrufen und über den Kanditat schleht reden).

Und dann gibt es die Arbeitskollegen, die versuchen dich und manipulieren, da sie dir so sehr geholfen haben und nun geht's du weg...

Ich verstehe Deutschland nicht.