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Why younger men are into older women? Just curious…

Sometimes it's because the older woman is more confident and knows what she wants more than a younger man's peers. Sometimes it's because the older woman puts more effort into her looks and clothing, and knows what looks good and doesn't look good on her. Sometimes it's about the older woman letting loose after she spent a lot of time building herself up, making her own money, getting her own space, and deciding now it's time to have fun. And sometimes it's Oedipal.

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What Porn Plot Trope has the highest possibility of happening

When I was delivering pizza after high school/before college, I had a woman try to do that "Oh no, I just realized I don't have any money. Is there any other way I could pay for this?" I had a partner at the time so I was just like, "Nah, it's on the house."

Another time I was delivering to a hotel and stopped to ask a woman where a room was. She pointed me in the right direction, then said she was trying to make money to keep her and her kid in a room for the night and would suck my cock for $100. I gave her a $20 and wished her luck.

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What would happen to a person who was kept all their life in a no-sex-existing environment?

Assuming they have sexual impulses, they'd probably have a lot of inner turmoil as they would have these strange desires that they couldn't contextualize or express because they never developed a vocabulary or conception of what the desires were. They would probably think they were weird or deviant in some way, and it would probably result in some kind of psychosis or outbursts as they tried to fit in with a world they felt didn't fit with them.

Assuming they were asexual, they'd probably live a long normal life.

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Are there any replacements for older sites like Backpage or CLs x4x?

If you're looking for sex workers, listcrawler. If you're looking for nsa hookups, nothing has really been as good as cl. You can try your luck on reddit and hope you can build enough karma to post and then they don't suspend your account for no reason. You can try worldofkink, but it feels like a wasteland most of the time. Fetlife might still be viable, but I've heard bad things about it lately.

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How do you feel about AI generated content?

I really dislike anything generative AI/LLM for the usual reasons (the amount of water used per prompt, the slow poisoning of people living near the plants producing power for it, the nonsense it generates because it's just placing words or pixels that are likely to go together, the psychosis it inspires in people, the fact that it's all based on stolen labor of artists and writers), but even all that aside, it just has a sheen of visible cheapness and uncanniness to it.

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Are you into roleplay?

I like it when you have a good partner. Talking over the scene beforehand, "yes and" and "no but," keeping the scene going. A lot of my ex partners have liked playing out different roles and I've always been happy to try. It can definitely dissolve if you if you have a bad partner or if the scene isn't working though

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Have you ever slept with someone that you initially disliked?

I don't really like most people when I first meet them, it takes a bit to find something to connect to. In my grad program, we used to go to a local bar after classes let out on Friday. There was a local girl and her friends who would meet us there (friends of one of the people in our program's girlfriend) and we'd drink and talk and dance basically until the bar closed. I didn't like this one girl in the group at first because she didn't seem to be interested in anything that we were studying, so she didn't ever get involved in our conversations, just completely disengaged and disinterested until it was time to dance. I was like "aight, if she doesn't want to talk to me, I won't talk to her then." Then after awhile she opened up and we started getting friendly, but then she had a strange habit of always touching me, tapping me on the arm or the shoulder, grabbing me when we danced, picking lint from my shirt. I didn't complain, but it felt like she'd skipped a few intimacy steps or something. I'm not sure what happened, but one night we went out and met them at the bar and she was like a whole different person. She was engaged and clever and really comfortable in a way I hadn't seen her before, just like a flip had switched that week. After the bar closed, she came back to my apartment and we hooked up, and then we just kind of kept hooking up for a few months. I asked if she wanted anything more at some point and she was just like "Nope, better to keep it simple." Then sometime around the spring I was writing my thesis and we just stopped hooking up, no drama or anything, just like 'guess this has run its course.' Enemies to lovers to strangers in about 6 months or so.