PLEASE READ: Rules and Guidelines

Any dating ads or personals must include “[PERSONAL]” above all other text - this was people don’t solicit those just trying to introduce themselves. Please report any unwanted solicitation or harassment directly to me via DM - I will ban all offending users.

While nobody is required to share more information than they please, we suggest that users include the following info in all personals:

A nickname
Age (or a range within 5 years)
Gender identity
Sexuality
Favorite kinks
Hard limits
Relationship status

Other than that, just have fun and chat with others! Don’t be afraid to show off your personality and flair!

There are no rules and guidelines to follow for introductions, but I want to remind users that we strictly enforce our policy that all active users (posters and commenters) should be 18+, regardless of your local laws.

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