It's so weird that bottoms could be construed as something negative. Bottom doesn't mean passive in any way, and without bottoms those that prefer to top would get way less ass
I mean, how many guys will filter out girls with a nose ring on the grounds that she must be a ho?
How many employers will filter out long hair on the grounds you must be a druggie?
How many strangers cross the street just because I'm covered in blood?
welcome to the world, stereotyping is still real and powerful, unfortunately.
I'm a bi guy in my late 20s. In my experience telling a woman you are bi is an excellent way to find out who she is. Most women my age think it's cool or even hot, then a small few show that they are homophobic pieces of shit. Either way you get a quick answer on if they are worth pursuing.
Now if you are in an older generation or in an extremely conservative area your luck may not be as good as mine. But it's worth remembering that if you can fuck dudes if you have trouble with women, which is also very fun.
Just depends if you're looking for church ladies or alt chicks.
Edit to paraphrase:
It just depends on what you're looking for, and what your dating pool looks like.
A socially conservative woman is more likely to balk at dating a bisexual man, but socially liberal/progressive women are far more likely to be fine with dating a bisexual man. Some in the latter camp will even be excited at the prospect of dating someone who's bisexual. It's certainly not an automatic penalty against your dating prospects, and in the right milieu it can even be an asset.
Dating sites are like 90% men and 10% women. If you open your profile up to both it’s inevitable you’ll get way more guy matches. Also imo guys are more desperate and horny which increases the chances of guy matches also.
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You look like a bottom.
Is that a good thing?
It's so weird that bottoms could be construed as something negative. Bottom doesn't mean passive in any way, and without bottoms those that prefer to top would get way less ass
"without bottoms those that prefer to top would get
way lessno ass"There will always be versatile people, but yes, it would be next to no ass compared to today :)
A lot of women avoid bi guys on purpose.
It's great, the trash filters itself.
I mean, how many guys will filter out girls with a nose ring on the grounds that she must be a ho? How many employers will filter out long hair on the grounds you must be a druggie? How many strangers cross the street just because I'm covered in blood?
welcome to the world, stereotyping is still real and powerful, unfortunately.
If you have to ask, you can't afford it.
hmm?
Mind your own business
Another bloodist over here 😮💨
Oh... So I've fairly recently been questioning bi but I've already had zero luck with women. I'm fucked aren't I?
Well apparently not it seems
I laughed really hard at your comment 🤣
I'm a bi guy in my late 20s. In my experience telling a woman you are bi is an excellent way to find out who she is. Most women my age think it's cool or even hot, then a small few show that they are homophobic pieces of shit. Either way you get a quick answer on if they are worth pursuing.
Now if you are in an older generation or in an extremely conservative area your luck may not be as good as mine. But it's worth remembering that if you can fuck dudes if you have trouble with women, which is also very fun.
A lot of women are into bi guys.
Just depends if you're looking for church ladies or alt chicks.
Edit to paraphrase: It just depends on what you're looking for, and what your dating pool looks like.
A socially conservative woman is more likely to balk at dating a bisexual man, but socially liberal/progressive women are far more likely to be fine with dating a bisexual man. Some in the latter camp will even be excited at the prospect of dating someone who's bisexual. It's certainly not an automatic penalty against your dating prospects, and in the right milieu it can even be an asset.
Those two being the only options right
Dating sites are like 90% men and 10% women. If you open your profile up to both it’s inevitable you’ll get way more guy matches. Also imo guys are more desperate and horny which increases the chances of guy matches also.
something something something submissive and breedable
from what I've heard tinder has some bs algorithm