Basically... I have and always have had few friends. Some of them I can only see a few times a year because they live far away...
I rarely go out, unless it's for a reason and it's usually a situation where you don't meet new people (groceries, cinema, bureaucracy, ...).
But for me it's not a problem: i love being alone! It just means for me it's very unlikely to meet new people and even more unlikely to find a significant other!
(and yes I love messing with my computer(s), bedrottimg, playing some videogames and all that femcel stuff 😏)
Yeah, we're basically tit for tat on that. I embraced being alone a bit too much and now I'm without a support system. I do have a some people I can meet nearby but defo none I'd call friends.
And yeah, I am sending this msg while also bedrotting, playing videogames and working on FOSS software.
Yeah... and covid made it worse, because for the first time in my life during lockdown I could live the life I wanted, and it was normal, but then it ended and I still struggle to get back to "normality"...
And yeah, I am sending this msg while also bedrotting, playing videogames and working on FOSS software.
I've always wanted to (but never actually did) work on foss software... But I work as a depressed software developer in a project that I'm really hating! :D
Anyways...
Tho, I'm a cishet dude so just malecel stuff
You would have been banned for this in the femcel subreddit, but I guess this community is less strict 😁
Oh yeah, we wouldn't be having this convo on some place that blocked me for my gender/sexuality. Anytime a community like that graces my feed I block it shortly after.
About FOSS yeah, I just host my stuff on codeberg (joined cuz of the anti ai stuff) and make my own shit for anyone to see, did a couple commits for some other projects but I'm very into doing my own thing and I'm basically self-taught so my code ain't the best.
About working on something you hate? Yeah, I get it. I work also as a programmer and I hated every moment I had to dig up someone else's C/AL code (proprietary Microsoft ERP coding language).
About working on something you hate? Yeah, I get it. I work also as a programmer and I hated every moment I had to dig up someone else's C/AL code (proprietary Microsoft ERP coding language).
See, the thing is that I don't care about stuff like that. The problem is management.
::: spoiler rant incoming you can skip
I need good managers to function well and it's been two years now that management is shit. I'm at a point where just the thought of opening the IDE makes me sick. I know I just have to suck it for a little bit then this project will be over and hopefully I will be put in something better. I don't really want to look for another job. Sorry for the rant
:::
About FOSS yeah, I just host my stuff on codeberg (joined cuz of the anti ai stuff) and make my own shit for anyone to see, did a couple commits for some other projects but I'm very into doing my own thing and I'm basically self-taught so my code ain't the best.
Oh so we are in a similar position. I've created lots of tools that were useful to me (and I think only to me in the world) and released them as foss, but I've never contributed code to a big foss project. I want to but I just never did.
Oh yeah, we wouldn't be having this convo on some place that blocked me for my gender/sexuality. Anytime a community like that graces my feed I block it shortly after.
Don't get me wrong, they have their own reasons for doing that on the subreddit, and I think they have a right to do it -- for example an AA meeting is not the place for a non-alcoholic. But at the same time, being too close of a group leads to radicalisation, and that group is radical. Some things may start as a joke, but then some people start believing them... it can be dangerous...
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This is totally wrong. My hair is teal, not pink.
i mean, my hair is black
this raises a question: is your pfp an illustration of you, or is it of "jessica" (that mysterious person who you totally aren't)
My pfp is an illustration of me. Idk who Jessica is
Jesicat meoow.
Do Americans know you can cook your own food at home?
no
Hey don't post lies on the Internet it's not very nice
Damn, they don't have restaurants outside the states? How sad.
instant noodles are food
And you don't even have to cook those.
Femcels be like:
She also always forgets to shave
Maybe she just doesn't want to. It is okay for women and fems to be hairy 🙂
Maybe she doesn't want to. But at the same time she hates being hairy. But at the same time she hates shaving.
It's a cycle of despair.
this
Wife
who and where
me and in my bed
omw
"lives off emotional support snacks and instant noodles" I felt that in my soul
I’m too hungry for instant noodles 😭
We need even sooner noodles
past noodles ... idk maybe call it pasta or sth? or is that overdoing it?
That'd be me, if I had a {boy,girl,enby}-friend
Also don't meet enough people to actually start something? I spend too much time home messing with xomputera, u?
Basically... I have and always have had few friends. Some of them I can only see a few times a year because they live far away...
I rarely go out, unless it's for a reason and it's usually a situation where you don't meet new people (groceries, cinema, bureaucracy, ...).
But for me it's not a problem: i love being alone! It just means for me it's very unlikely to meet new people and even more unlikely to find a significant other!
(and yes I love messing with my computer(s), bedrottimg, playing some videogames and all that femcel stuff 😏)
Yeah, we're basically tit for tat on that. I embraced being alone a bit too much and now I'm without a support system. I do have a some people I can meet nearby but defo none I'd call friends.
And yeah, I am sending this msg while also bedrotting, playing videogames and working on FOSS software.
Tho, I'm a cishet dude so just malecel stuff
Yeah... and covid made it worse, because for the first time in my life during lockdown I could live the life I wanted, and it was normal, but then it ended and I still struggle to get back to "normality"...
I've always wanted to (but never actually did) work on foss software... But I work as a depressed software developer in a project that I'm really hating! :D
Anyways...
You would have been banned for this in the femcel subreddit, but I guess this community is less strict 😁
r/femcel itself is banned
I'm talking about another subreddit
Oh yeah, we wouldn't be having this convo on some place that blocked me for my gender/sexuality. Anytime a community like that graces my feed I block it shortly after.
About FOSS yeah, I just host my stuff on codeberg (joined cuz of the anti ai stuff) and make my own shit for anyone to see, did a couple commits for some other projects but I'm very into doing my own thing and I'm basically self-taught so my code ain't the best.
About working on something you hate? Yeah, I get it. I work also as a programmer and I hated every moment I had to dig up someone else's C/AL code (proprietary Microsoft ERP coding language).
See, the thing is that I don't care about stuff like that. The problem is management. ::: spoiler rant incoming you can skip I need good managers to function well and it's been two years now that management is shit. I'm at a point where just the thought of opening the IDE makes me sick. I know I just have to suck it for a little bit then this project will be over and hopefully I will be put in something better. I don't really want to look for another job. Sorry for the rant :::
Oh so we are in a similar position. I've created lots of tools that were useful to me (and I think only to me in the world) and released them as foss, but I've never contributed code to a big foss project. I want to but I just never did.
Don't get me wrong, they have their own reasons for doing that on the subreddit, and I think they have a right to do it -- for example an AA meeting is not the place for a non-alcoholic. But at the same time, being too close of a group leads to radicalisation, and that group is radical. Some things may start as a joke, but then some people start believing them... it can be dangerous...
I wish I was that functional 🥲
Oh no my FOSS stuff is kinda trash. Random patches to things I used
I hit every one of these marks except unemployed
my condolences
You can be unemployed in spirit
easy to change
I'm also scared of ordering food from blåhaj's butt
It's okay, she has Blahaj to support her.
Now have job and have always cooked because it’s fucking cheaper lick my fingers bitches
You know you're lonely when you start looking at people like this and rationalize yourself into by remembering you've dated worse.
"I can fix her"
Thise are gonna be my last words someday. 😮💨
I dont even wanna fix her, she's perfect
literally me 😭
yee haw
gosh me tooo
"sleep during the day - wake up at night" after just eeping until 3PM.
Live by the blahaj, die by the blahaj
Well the unemployed part is the deal breaker there
The economy sucks, ok?
That's true
Edit: the big problem with unemployment is the not having to do anything part. It's crazy but we are really not build for that
Being unemployed doesn’t mean you have nothing to do.
True but: For most ppl it does.
Do most people have no hobbies and interests?
that means she got time
I mean that's part of the problem
Yeah, that is a bit much. You need at least some spine, as nice as it would be to imagine fixing such a person.
What about a dysfunctional spine?
scoliosis :3
So long as there is something to be straightened...
but I'll never be straight :3