Finn felt far eggier imo. Shen feels like it's a possibility, but it's likely he's just playing with the fact that a lot of his readers call egg. Finn on the other hand was in full passing fem mode routinely and taking basically any excuse to do so.

Tbh for both I think it's unhelpful to call egg after it's been acknowledged. It's worth making people aware of the possibility and the fact that a lot of certain behaviors can in retrospect have been signs. But anything further is just pressuring someone who you may or may not be correct about. Finn has talked about how the pressure delayed her realization and coming out.

As it stands Shen says he's a cis guy who enjoys femininity and softness. That's cool, I wish more cis guys were comfortable with that. If he later comes out and says something else about his gender then we can change to what the new story is then.

I fully support Shen as whatever he chooses to be, because either way we get cute pictures of girl Shen and great jokes

Shen is either a really supportive ally, or an insanely eggy egg, and either way is awesome :3

Voice training before I pass let's me really mess with people. I'll look boyish/androgynous, and then I'll do a really femme voice, and the look on people's faces lol.