It is not, but the same thing occurs in my mother tongue. I’m just salty that there is a gender neutral word, but only the gendered versions got their meanings expanded
edit: now that I think about it, the translation for boy/girl is acceptable in less places and I don’t think we use it in compound words
I think it doesn't work because "child" is gender-neutral referring to age, rather than referring to a specific gender. What we need is a word for enby kids.
Unless she's not into it, of course. I had a partner who didn't want anything to do with her penis. Any sense of pleasure was overridden by the discomfort of her dysphoria.
As an alternative, she would love to be tied up and given sensory play. Ice cubes, wax, paintbrushes, roller pins, anything to produce a novel sensation would drive her wild. So yeah, your mileage may vary. Either way, bring some pleasure to the trans partner in your life today! :)
Came here to say this. From the community of trans girls I know, I would guess that at least 25% can't stand acknowledgement of their bits without dissociating from dysphoria.
This makes me feel a lot better abt myself, tbh. I always thought I was just an extreme outlier for what I wanted done to me, and to know it's fairly common feels better. I need very specific care to not be overwhelmed by dysphoria.
Yeah, head is nice don't get me wrong, but I'll take flowers, friendship, transition help, money. Yknow things that are actually meaningful. C'mon y'all, I'm not just a dick to suck.
my personal opinion is that the sponge sucks until it's wet
in other words, people who've already made a lot of sexual experiences in their life don't need it anymore, but people who've never had the chance to, seek it.
[conditions and restrictions apply. Trans individuals need only apply. Must be open to being in a loving throuple for the rest of your life. See your doctor about getting tested before hand so that I can gobble that nozzle and bathe in that glaze without worry]
Browsing "all" here has a lot of queer content compared to reddit for instance. Make of that what you will, but to cishet me, that was very apparent upon joining Lemmy.
I don't. But, I don't think posts about oral sex are typically the top post on the equivalent of "All" on other social media, as this post was. I could be wrong. I routinely see sexual topics on All here (sorted by Active). Nothing wrong with it, just making an observation.
So when mommy and daddy love each other so much daddy gets between the legs of mommy and kisses her a lot there. That's giving head, also applies the other way around.
or let a trans girl give you head... you know either way is cool. maybe both?
Both is good
Both at once.
Nah, the bottom gets it first cuz I want that throat relaxed.
Trans boys need head too
Please don't give children head. Adults only
girls and boys are not adults
Is english your first language?
"Girls" can mean children, but is frequently used for women of any age as a diminutive. Same goes for "boys."
However, "children" almost exclusively refers to someone underage.
It is not, but the same thing occurs in my mother tongue. I’m just salty that there is a gender neutral word, but only the gendered versions got their meanings expanded
edit: now that I think about it, the translation for boy/girl is acceptable in less places and I don’t think we use it in compound words
I think it doesn't work because "child" is gender-neutral referring to age, rather than referring to a specific gender. What we need is a word for enby kids.
English has always been a vibes—based language. don’t try to rationalize it or you’ll go mad.
Unless she's not into it, of course. I had a partner who didn't want anything to do with her penis. Any sense of pleasure was overridden by the discomfort of her dysphoria.
As an alternative, she would love to be tied up and given sensory play. Ice cubes, wax, paintbrushes, roller pins, anything to produce a novel sensation would drive her wild. So yeah, your mileage may vary. Either way, bring some pleasure to the trans partner in your life today! :)
Came here to say this. From the community of trans girls I know, I would guess that at least 25% can't stand acknowledgement of their bits without dissociating from dysphoria.
This makes me feel a lot better abt myself, tbh. I always thought I was just an extreme outlier for what I wanted done to me, and to know it's fairly common feels better. I need very specific care to not be overwhelmed by dysphoria.
Hey, one overly curious question. Was the sensation play also around the genitals or was it focused on other erogenous zones?
All around the body. Pretty much exploring.
i mean just give a trans girls flowers too.
Yeah, head is nice don't get me wrong, but I'll take flowers, friendship, transition help, money. Yknow things that are actually meaningful. C'mon y'all, I'm not just a dick to suck.
Personally, I'd prefer head. Or a couple hours of Guilty Gear 1v1, even better
Edit: Strive, on the EU servers (Greece), with a mid Nago that I'd just love to play against someone who'd destroy me, freely
Hit me up on Dms if you wanna spar!
happy pride <3
O.O This is exactly what I wanted!!!! Thanks!!!!
I dunno if I can offer head but i'd play ya some GGST 0 issue
But which version??? Strive I think would be the easiest to play while giving head
enbies need bad too 🥺
Give a trans head
Any trans person, just do it.
I do not want to behead a trans person for this purpose.
Give a billionaire head to a trans person
You bet I'm down for that
You can do it without the hea.
I'm happy to do my part o7
In all seriousness, how would one ask about this? Like just saying "Hey, you're trans right? Do you probably need head bad rn?" seems a bit creepy?
"Hey what Linux distro do you use?"
If it's Nix OS you're golden. If it's Arch there's a decent chance.
If they say Debian, is that a clue they aren't into brief encounters but want more of a long term relationship?
They expect long term support at the bare minimum.
I think you need to go around in a shirt something like:
🌈 PRIDE DEALS 🦄
THIS MONTH ONLY 🔥🔥🔥
TRANS GIRLS GET THEIR DICKS SUCKED FREE!!
This is the world liberals want
The homosexual agenda
B I G G A Y
Trans ppl are way more receptive to outwardly flirtatious approaches
Edit.: Speaking about my lived experiences, trans ppl have been easier to approach.
Trans people are not a monolith. We are people and have varying preferences.
Oh, I thought you all met in the teen titans tower to discuss how to act
my personal opinion is that the sponge sucks until it's wet
in other words, people who've already made a lot of sexual experiences in their life don't need it anymore, but people who've never had the chance to, seek it.
Being trans correlates with being autistic, and autistic people generally appreciate directness.
Are there... Ulterior motives to this post?
there is just one very obvious motive to this post
If you happen to be literally anywhere in the pacific northwest of the USA, you're in driving distance...
There are some really horny people in this post.
It's me. I'm horny 🤣
Saxophone noises
well i'm in europe soo..
Damn. I'll let you know when I tour Europe xD
Or you can send me a pic in DMs and I'll send a vid back mouth fucking it. idk.
I wish I lived in PNW. The southeast is... less friendly to trans folks.
...and I'll drive out to suck your dick :)
[conditions and restrictions apply. Trans individuals need only apply. Must be open to being in a loving throuple for the rest of your life. See your doctor about getting tested before hand so that I can gobble that nozzle and bathe in that glaze without worry]
Want to give head
My body is willing but my game is weak
Lemmy is horniest social media I've ever used.
You don't use much social media, then? Is this a joke? Its literally a twitter screenshot lol.
Lemmy noticeably has very little queer horny posting. I feel like even Tumblr, with its site wide porn ban, is more publicly horny than Lemmy.
Browsing "all" here has a lot of queer content compared to reddit for instance. Make of that what you will, but to cishet me, that was very apparent upon joining Lemmy.
Not much horny posting tho.
I don't. But, I don't think posts about oral sex are typically the top post on the equivalent of "All" on other social media, as this post was. I could be wrong. I routinely see sexual topics on All here (sorted by Active). Nothing wrong with it, just making an observation.
Ok fine but you're staying tied up in my basement can't be spoiling ya too much
hell yeah who wants head?
I need to eat more designer pussy
NGL I’m curious about how the new UI would work
Mine works great, and I haven't noticed much difference between neo vaginas and natal ones
I'm not one to receive it, but if I had my gf with me I would give her TwT
I need to start head collection of hominids, homo sapiens seems great beginning :3
So no head?
Not yet
Problem. Of the two transgirls I've ever liked, one instead likes really big women and the other is ace.
I don't know what "head" is supposed to mean in this context and I'm not sure if I want to
So when mommy and daddy love each other so much daddy gets between the legs of mommy and kisses her a lot there. That's giving head, also applies the other way around.
Where do I find these women?