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Positive deposits are a great tool when you're in a relationship with a power dynamic like a teacher with students or a boss with employees. A sticker chart to get the pizza party is something we are all familiar with.

Where this falls apart is when it's a relationship that is supposed to be based on equality and shared responsibilities. It inherently assigns the power and authority to one side, the wife/mother in this case.

In my opinion, the only way a thing like this works is a straight up competition. Both their names need to be earning stickers and there needs to be a single prize to be won. BJs go both ways.

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If, for some reason, you can't see how psycho this is, just flip gender.

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The line about not throwing away a favorite shirt makes it seem like parody to me

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I don't know how anyone can look at this and think it's deadly serious. It's just a couple having a laugh.

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lemmy.world

From their facial expressions it appears that the guy is on the giving end of the beej and not the receiving

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Teh
sh.itjust.works

Is she really incentivizing giving kids bulimia? Or just shaken baby syndrome?

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TheYojimboreply
lemmy.world

Depends on the kids age and sickness... I'd rather wash dishes or put the toilet seat down (wtf)

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My lad was a projectile vomitter and he didn't know he was going to be sick until it started spurting out of him.

We lost a stair carpet thanks to that.

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I feel the week of not nagging is less likely going to happen than the BJ.

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lemmy.ml

You laugh, but I've seen this kink in the wild. Some people get off on the misery and domination (and not just the dom).

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Nah man, not actual misery. Dominatiom relies on a mutual understanding and enjoyment.

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