Stay true to you. People are going to judge, if not for this, then for that. The upside is that by being upfront about your interests, your chances of finding like minded people is greater.

I have many positive stories that have come from being upfront, and not a single one from keeping my mouth shut.

God, I hate when this happens. Even in kink communities 🫣

Especially when your kink is on the weirder, lesser known, and accepted side.

I should just buy a monsterfucker shirt

i jus act like i kno whads up n pretend i kno som peep online