Sure, it is an asshole thing to do when your partner doesn't want you to do it, but cheating for me needs some physical or emotional intimacy that a lapdance doesn't have enough of I think.
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I'll just toss this on the increasingly complicated pile of things I am not.
You're just tolyphobic! #canceled
Look out everyone, we've got a tolyphobicphobic here!
Is getting a lap dance cheating?
Sure, it is an asshole thing to do when your partner doesn't want you to do it, but cheating for me needs some physical or emotional intimacy that a lapdance doesn't have enough of I think.