adhd·ADHD memesbyMelodiousFunk "It wouldn't be a problem if you weren't so lazy"View original on slrpnk.net400Comments5Reply
MelodiousFunk replyslrpnk.net What is the problem? how is the problem effecting me? Whats the simplest way to solve the problem? My interests do not align with "productivity." Everything required for survival is a massive drag mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Stop playing the rigged game Drugs, mostly. 30Reply
KKiosade replylemmy.ca2Hide 2 repliesJust don’t try to apply those steps to a problem an SO is having… sometimes they just want to complain and have someone listen.12Reply
fflughoernchen replyfeddit.org1Hide 1 replyIt's totally valid to ask: "Would you like my advice or would you like me to just listen?" It shows you actually care about the person and that it's okay if they just want to vent. But you're still there if they want and need help.14Reply
AAlecSadler sh.itjust.worksThis is the most succinct form of the way I felt growing up I have ever read.10Reply
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Stop playing the rigged gameDrugs, mostly.Just don’t try to apply those steps to a problem an SO is having… sometimes they just want to complain and have someone listen.
It's totally valid to ask: "Would you like my advice or would you like me to just listen?" It shows you actually care about the person and that it's okay if they just want to vent. But you're still there if they want and need help.
Thank you, I will take that to heart :)
This is the most succinct form of the way I felt growing up I have ever read.