All I know for sure is that I imagined up for myself, something in life far better than anything l've ever got to do, be, or have.
No one ever wished up severe abuse, neglect, 3 hip replacements, etc. Sure, we get to choose our tesponses. But, when all you have to choose from is a rock or a hard place, then it doesn't seem to matter anyhow.

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Hello friend, what brings you to these parts of the interwebs.