We've done quite a few longer drives around 10-14 hrs with a now 2 and a 4. Keep on the lookout for playgrounds to stretch legs. The 1yo almost always sleeps and the 4yo loves the opportunity to watch a few movies on a phone with headphones. Do what ever you need to to get there safely even if it isn't necessarily the best parenting.

Doing well, nice to see you all again.