Spyke

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Why do people tend towards monogamy, but try to collect different sexual partners in our lives?

Some people tend to monogamy and others to polyamory, and some to none of the above.

I'm actually monogamous myself, I have one sexual partner IRL, and everything else (such as my activity here) is just fantasy material for masturbating.

If given the opportunity to have a session with a sex worker IRL I would refuse as long as I am still in a relationship with my partner.

One of the factors in my monogamy is the golden rule: I would not want her to have other men, it would make me jealous - I'd fear losing her to them, so I wouldn't do that to her either even if I had the chance.

As for polyamory and such becoming more common, if that's even actually the case, it's probably because people are hearing about it now and those who would naturally tend that way now know it exists and can feel better about trying it.

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Do people just not get horny anymore?

I feel a bit guarded about my privacy here. Especially since even the up and down votes are public information if you know where to look. I don't think it would be hard to link this account to my main one, but I try not to make it too obvious, so I don't comment as much as I could.

Also OC is somewhat rare so I know I'm usually not talking to the person in the image or video anyway.