I am still looking for help. I mostly am looking for light-touch moderation (i.e. Giving people room to express themselves, even if it's not a happy discussion, and stepping in only when absolutely necessary).
As far as the BDSM specific element goes, since you are a bit newer to the kink/interest in general, would you be willing to expand on any of the following safety topics to help give me a better feel with your engagement with it? There are a lot of ways that various things can go wrong with bdsm, and while this will mostly be a porn community, discussion is bound to happen and we may have to step in to give more experienced advice.
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What is the primary distinguishing factor between SSC and RACK, and where would each one apply?
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What types of physical harm do riggers (shibari) have to avoid, and what tools and techniques would they use to avoid them? (At least one physical tool and one process)
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Instead of using a "safe word" like pineapple or eggplant, what is generally considered a better system?