Sorry my phone corrected meh to men. I am MTF and had bottom surgery about a month ago. I am still 2 months away from actually having being able to have sex. But I have noticed my sex drive has increase and I actually think about it now where as before surgery I really didn't care for sex or think much of it.

I had my surgery September 21st. So sadly I am actually unable to preform at the moment. But do I want. I wasn't expecting this. Funny I went way longer before surgery without sex so its not like I'm just frustrated because I can't.

What physical therapy are you doing?

You are right I should ha e given more information. I went ahead and update the main text but so you have it. Surgery: Penile Inversion Vaginoplasty, Surgeon: Dr. Gerhard Mundinger. I had one virtual appointment in February of this year and in that appointment they helped me find therapist that I cab get with for letters, and place near me to get hair removal. After I got the letters with in about a month (I have been transitioning for years so I had more then enough medial history and information needed that it didn't take them long to sign the letters). I then spend the next 5 months getting hair removal. Partly though this process my surgery date was set. I then had a physical appointment with my surgeon a week before the surgery. Then I just showed up at the hospital 3 hours before the surgery and from there I just let them do what they needed and slept a lot until I was released 48 hours later. Then I spent a week pretty mush in bed. I have 3 post op appointments with my surgeon. The first one was last week and that's when I started the process of dilation. Which to be fair has been the most awkward and frustrating part so far. I have my fiancé helping me and honestly without them this whole last week and half would have been near impossible. So above all you need a care taker you can depend on and will be willing to do basically everything for you.

Well if they didn't I wouldn't have gotten then surgery.

The realization that I actually got surgery. Most of my life the idea this would happen was just a dream. It was financially out of reach and I really didn't know how to abtained the letters I needed. It was not until the beginning of this year that everything just came together and I was able to figure everything out.

Oh the first few weeks was nothing but pain and pressure. But it gets better.

^ this person gets it

Oh trust me I am at the point where the swelling has gone down and the sutures are all most gone and its amazing how normal it looks. In a year you wouldn't even know. I will say pictures on line are usually of people early on and is a little miss leading of how everything will look in the end.

Interesting our colors are different purple was the first one for me and orange is the last.

Amazing. Take your time picking a name I picked a name because I was kind of forced to and now so many people know me by it I really can't change it without outing myself so I'm stuck with a name I don't really like.

I got Penile Inversion Vaginoplasty. I got amazing depth with mine. (This is not always the case and if I don't keep up on dilation then I will lose it). I'm getting married to a man and in my case I have more depth then needed but plan on making sure I don't lose any

Ummm what?

Well if you have questions feel free to ask.

Why thank you.

This is the biggest aspect of being a transwomen that is just plain hard because unlike ciswomen we are not normally given our teenage years to experiment and learn. Most of use are adults that have to just go from not wearing make up to having normal make up routine. Because of this any mistake to us feels like a flag we are a trans.

I got https://www.soulsource.com/collections/grs-vaginal-dilators/products/soul-source-grs-vaginal-dilators-large-set

It is highly recommended you get hair removal. The surgeon you get with will have a recommendation for the exact location that needs hair removed from. That being said the Crane Center I went though will tell you if there is reasons you can't they can still preform the surgery, you will just have more chance of infection and well hair inside.

If you are in the US look into the Crane Center. They not only help you figure out what you can get but have payment plans.

This might be a odd awnser but idk why I started transitioning. I have always felt like a women even before I realized thing like gender and sexuality. Fun enough before starting hormones I was exclusively into women and then I started and became Bi. Now I'm marrying a man so what a rollercoaster. I will say I am just more comfortable with my self and other since transitioning.