The best way is to do so objectively:

I really like the lighting in this scene!

What great shot composition!

I can see you worked hard on this! Good job!

This doesn't really track with companies commissioning power plants to support power usage of AI training demand

This is going to be a bit rambly, and I apologize up front, but this is my experience of asexuality.

For much of my life (and I'm somewhat old) I didn't really consider myself asexual. It was relatively recently that I saw a video about a couple of different perspectives of asexuality, and one perspective that I found relatable was roughly this:

For some people, asexuality is an attraction model that isn't really centered on people, i.e. you don't necessarily find people (physically) attractive, you may find attraction focused on other things, such as events, scenarios/situations, or connection.

Hearing this and looking back, there are a few things that stood out:

• When I was in a long-term relationship, my partner was quite frustrated with my lack of sex drive. I wasn't uninterested, but sex to me was more of an academic curiosity; I would read about sex on forums like early Reddit, see what people liked, and I enjoyed doing and trying things that made them react, but the act itself didn't mean a lot to me.
• I never really got into "regular" porn, but really enjoyed drawn stuff, especially if it depicted something unusual (certain scenarios, etc )
• I eventually got a bit into visual novels, and later other porn games, enough so that I volunteered to mod for the Reddit lewdgames subreddit, and run the c/lewdgames community here as well.

I've never been "sex-repulsed" like the other poster mentioned, but I've also never felt like my attraction model was appropriately described by other terms. I've adopted asexual, and I feel like it fits better than most, even though I'm still reasonably involved in porn communities.

Rimworld has a pretty interesting modding scene.

I know Skyrim has an extensive lewd modding scene as well, but I haven't really messed with it

Weirdly, I really like mods in already NSFW games:

• Strive4Power and it's sequel/remake, Strive Conquest have mods that experiment with the gameplay quite a bit.
• I played around with writing mods for Portals of Phereon for a bit to try out some changes to the game to better fit my interests.

I get the concern with mods being complicated to install, depending on the game & it's engine, it can be difficult to keep compatibility with either new versions if the game, or with other mods.

Not before we get to panel 4

Yeah, boejakka and others from the reddit lewdgames community have done great work cataloging these.

I'm waiting for feedback from the other mods over there before I go promoting this community

Yes,

It's wonky though, they have to first post it comment in your community, then you can add them there. In the web ui it shows up after clicking the 3 dots on the comment/post

Yup

https://www.loverslab.com/files/category/238-rimworld/

There's also a risk that being too loose with any questionably legal content could lead to blocking or defederation of this community/server, both of which I'd like to avoid

No, it's not, and there are some efforts underway to build something a little more permanent.

Fwiw it's not something I made, just bringing over from Reddit

Gotta get those numbers up

Yeah, that's the idea!

It is fairly incomplete though

It's not just you. I've had better luck entering the full url manually ( http://lemmynsfw.com/c/[email protected] ) than trying to search. Still sometimes fails though.

I appreciate the feedback, and that's kind of how I'm leaning here as well.

French

The first link in the post is to the Google doc that drives the site. There are links to the form page where you can make changes.

Alternatively you can comment here and I can take a look

Congrats on "first"

It's a cat

This looks like an artist making fake AI slop, and I'm down for it