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Locktober 2026 - day 21 check-in

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Yeah, I probably will do that. :)

Maybe edging isn't that difficult and I'm just being greedy. ^^ The first is usually not dangerous at all - but also doesn't feel all that great. As I do more edges, the margin for error gets smaller and smaller until I eventually fail/cum. Maybe I should define a goal per day for NNN and leave it at that.

Nice that chastity - and... related activities - give you more than just the horniness. I also like the idea of you modifying your body to make it easier to control - that's some serious sub vibes. :D

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Locktober 2026 - day 21 check-in

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Glad you're feeling right again. :) I assume you mean a chastity strap?

I'll definitely take part in talking about it, if I do decide to take part in NNN. Not sure about anything more than words, though.

I enjoy edging, but I feel your pain with getting close but not too close. Especially if I try to do it multiple days in a row. When I do manage, the ruining basically happens on its own though.

Do you plan on edging/ruining for NNN or is just aim "just" two months of chastity?

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Locktober 2026 - day 21 check-in

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Oh, I meant to comment on the original post and forgot. Thanks for the reminder and great you're still going, despite having to deal with life stuff. I hope you can get back to being caged a lot soon. :)

To answer your question: I'm not doing doing Locktober, since I'm more interested in the controlling side of chastity. I'm thinking about doing NNN though - as in lots of fapping, but no cumming. I could certainly use the edging practice.

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Suggestion for gender tags

Not a mod here, but a regular viewer and somewhat regular commenter, so I though I'd give my 0.02€ (also cis male, in case that's relevant).

Firstly, to me, gonewild is fundamentally about the person that makes the post, for two reasons:

  1. Simple "economics": If the OPs are not getting anything out of it, there's no content (unless you count advertisements from content producers, which isn't really what gonewild is about for me).
  2. The genuine erotic self-expression of another person by the medium of photography is what I'm here for. If I wanted just any old porn, I would look either in other communities or simply outside of social media altogether.

My conclusion from that is: If there's a rule that does not suit the people posting here, it should change. So, I'd be all for [TF], etc. either as a replacement or as an addition to [MTF], etc.

Secondly, I'm not sure who and what the gender tags are for. Ostensibly, it's for filtering out content a viewer does not wish to see. If we ever get to the point where this community has reddit-levels of posting frequency, that might be necessary (although I'd prefer additional communities for narrower content), but I really don't think we have that problem right now.

I have other preconceptions about why people might want gender tags, but I don't want to argue with strawpeople - they're scratchy and pokey and not in a good way. So, instead I'd like to post the question: Why have gender tags at all? I hope it's okay to ask this. I don't mean to overreach, dear mods.